083 - The Triforce of Communication

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4.9 • 935 Ratings

🗓️ 6 September 2016

⏱️ 38 minutes

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It's dangerous to go alone...take this! It's the Triforce of Communication!What is that, you ask? The Triforce of Communication, other than being a nerdy title, are the three primary goals of communication in any given conversation or interaction with a partner. Communication breakdowns often occur when you and your partner have mismatched goals. If your partner thinks you are seeking support or acknowledgment when you are actually seeking problem-solving advice, disappointment and frustration can show up faster than you know it. In this episode, we talk about these three different goals, and how you can use the knowledge of these goals to make your communication more effective.Kathy Labriola's original video on communication goals can be found here: https://youtu.be/CzA5UBDaQcc If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of like-minded listeners at patreon.com/Multiamory. You can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, bonus episodes, and more! Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	If you're happy with the same old ways of dating, if you enjoy sucking at communication, and you have no desire to improve your romantic life, then our podcast might not be for you.
0:10.0	But you want some out-of-the-box ideas to deepen your current relationships, broaden your
0:15.2	sexual horizons, develop a better understanding of yourself, or learn more about non-monogamy,
0:20.9	then you've come to the right place.
0:22.7	I'm Jace.
0:23.7	I'm Amelaine.
0:24.7	And I'm Dedaker.
0:25.7	And this is the Multiamari Podcast.
0:27.6	Bongs I know I did.
0:33.0	Forcing me for myself to fix.
0:40.0	On this episode of the multi-ammery podcast we are talking about the tri-force of communication.
0:50.2	This is something that we just invented.
0:52.8	Well, okay, we didn't totally invented ourselves.
0:55.5	It's based off of some things from some other very smart people that have come up with this.
1:00.3	But we have named it the tri-force of communication, which is an amazing title that
1:05.5	that occur came up with. And this is basically about when you communicate with someone
1:11.7	what are your reasons for doing it?
1:14.9	And because of that, you know, what is it that you want to get back from that and how important this is in terms of having good communication and when these things are
1:24.4	mismatched if the person receiving the communication thinks you want
1:28.4	something different than what your actual goal for this communication is that can lead to frustration and you know anxiety
1:37.4	and disappointment and things like that so that's what we're talking about the
1:41.2	tri-force of communication.
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