#080 - Rory Kilmartin: Biohacking Relationships, The Four Personality Archetypes, Resolving Conflict, Understanding Communication, Psychological Safety, Embracing Responsibility, And More!

The Melanie Avalon Biohacking Podcast

Melanie Avalon

Alternative Health, Nutrition, Health & Fitness

4.5 • 650 Ratings

🗓️ 11 February 2021

⏱️ 121 minutes

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0:00.0	When you're out of balance triggered, you revert to a type.
0:04.0	You do the thing that you do, and that's where you make a mess of your life.
0:08.0	Each survival archetype has a different need for a number of things.
0:11.0	Different things trigger each survival archetypal.
0:14.0	Psychological safety, what makes people feel safe and relaxed, is different.
0:19.0	If you can deeply understand your own value system, what drives
0:22.5	you and you can deeply understand the value system of the other three survival archetypes,
0:28.6	you could reduce the misery and suffering of your relationship by up to around 90%. Welcome to the
0:33.9	Melanie Avalon biohacking podcast, where we meet the world's top experts to explore the secrets of health, mindset, longevity, and so much more.
0:44.8	Are you ready to take charge of your existence and biohack your life?
0:49.1	This show is for you.
0:51.0	Please keep in mind.
0:52.3	We're not dispensing medical advice and are not responsible for any
0:56.0	outcomes you may experience from implementing the tactics lying here in. Are you ready? Let's do this.
1:04.2	Welcome back to the Melanie Avalon Biohacking podcast. Friends, the content of this episode is honestly,
1:10.6	in my opinion, one of the most
1:12.6	life-changing experiences, school of thought that you can possibly ever engage in. I mean that.
1:19.3	I haven't really done episodes on relationships. There are so many, quote, relationship experts
1:24.2	out there, so many ideas that are posited to solve relationship issues.
1:29.1	Rory's work is not any of that. It is an entire new way of seeing yourself, seeing others,
1:36.4	seeing how you relate with others, finally understanding why you do the things you do,
1:41.2	why other people do the things they do. It is life changing. Even when I first
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