Welcome to track number seven of others.

Does anybody have any question to ask?

Yes.

I just wanted to know, is there a point when you need to exercise some caution in terms of if the person is maybe

not deviating from the word of God or something like that

I mean how do you know because you're saying that you need to open your

heart fully and to receive fully from a person yeah well

that's that's the that's the whole point it's it's there is there there there's

always a danger you know and and um but the delusion that comes with the danger with that, is that when you are always conscious of something bad,

you can't relate well.

You know, you don't relate well.

You understand.

So then you never flow well. Like, let's say this it's possible that your

husband can have an affair it is possible that your wife can have an affair but if that

is the predominant thought that guides you in your relationship you will have an abnormal

relationship you will not have a normal relationship. You don't have a good relationship.

Your marriage and your life will be totally destroyed. There are many people who are like John Wesley's marriage was destroyed because of that.

Because his wife thought and was convinced that there was somebody or some people that he either wanted to have.

And there are many people like that, you see.

And that leads you to a distorted relationship.

So if I'm relating with you, you're always thinking,

maybe I'm wrong, maybe I've gone to the deep end,

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