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Modern Mentor

063 GID Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Boss

Modern Mentor

Macmillan Holdings, LLC

Careers, Business, Management

4.3726 Ratings

🗓️ 30 December 2008

⏱️ 5 minutes

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0:00.0

Stevea Robbins here.

0:05.5

Welcome to the Get It Done Guys quick and dirty tips to work less and do more.

0:11.5

Today's topic is dealing with a boss who blames you even when it's not your fault.

0:16.5

The quick and dirty tip is to acknowledge the facts and feelings, take the blame if it's necessary

0:20.9

and safe, and move on to solutions. Keith writes in, what do you do when you've done exactly

0:27.9

what your boss says? Say, book a certain hotel in Las Vegas. And then when you arrive, he goes

0:33.2

all Jekyll and hide on you, changing his mind and throwing a big tantrum. What's the best reaction to

0:38.6

workplace anger? Should you admit fault, even though you've done nothing wrong? I like to be right,

0:43.7

but I like to be employed more. What do you think? Keith, we are on the same wavelength. I love

0:50.8

being right, too, especially when it's about modern art, great literature, or anything

0:55.3

that requires specialized knowledge. I have lots of specialized knowledge, although not in any of those

1:00.4

areas, so I can speak with absolute authority without the hassle of actually learning anything

1:05.5

about the subject. I state my convictions firmly and everyone assumes I'm an expert.

1:10.8

Life is good.

1:12.8

As you've discovered, this falls apart when it's a battle with the boss.

1:16.1

If the boss says jump, you jump, and then the boss yells at you for jumping, you're in a quandary.

1:22.1

Do you get sucked into the right and wrong game, or do you let your boss have his way and move on?

1:27.2

If you've ever seen

1:27.9

the devil wears Prada, you know some bosses are evil manipulative, sadistic monsters who like

1:32.5

watching people fail. It seems really wrong to stand by and take it when someone like that

1:37.1

wrongly accuses you. Do right and wrong matter. I've noticed over the years that often, when I don't

1:43.1

have the power, being right is irrelevant.

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