It was five years ago that I was first introduced to the concept of being stuck in the gap mindset.

What is the gap mindset?

Well, we're going to explain it to you in this episode and we're also going to use

this principle or the concept of the gap mindset to kind of describe and break down how 2019 went for Katie and I.

We had some wins, we had some losses, but most importantly we're ending the year not in the

gap. And that's the big win of 2019. So folks, I hope you do enjoy. Also I have

to say this podcast has been a huge blessing to Katie and I. This is episode 52. So thank you for just

encouraging us and sticking with us to get through one full years worth of podcast

episodes. That's a huge win for us. And if you would like to leave a rating or a review that would just be such a fun way for Katie and I to end the year would be with some some fun reviews or or five star ratings. So if you feel so inclined and you enjoy this podcast,

please do that.

Hey, I'm Elisha of Oprah. And I'm his wife Katie. Katie and I'm Elisha Vobberg.

And I'm his wife, Katie.

Katie and I both grew up in families that were fun, impactful, and relationship rich.

Now that we're a family of our own with three young children under the age of three or eager to see what God

can do through the family unit. We're so excited that you're joining us on this

podcast as we dive into what the Bible says about marriage, children, parenting, money, sex, careers, roles, and so much more.

Katie, are you ready?

Let's go. Oh, uh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh,

oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, We were talking about what we were going to talk about in this podcast,

and I brought up that this year has kind of been hard, not this year year but like this last fall we were talking

about a marriage conflict that we had and I was like I think it was extended

because we were having issues with our intimacy because it was the first time we've been trying to kind of space out

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