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Midlife Conversations with Natalie Jill: Fat Loss, Hormones & Health for Women Over 40

041: Choosing Responsibility Over a Victim Mentality with Infidelity with Dr. Jen Esquer

Midlife Conversations with Natalie Jill: Fat Loss, Hormones & Health for Women Over 40

Natalie Jill

Alternative Health, Health & Fitness

4.8635 Ratings

🗓️ 28 January 2019

⏱️ 27 minutes

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Summary

Dr. Jen Esquer, aka DocJenFit made a very tough decision before the holidays… to walk away from a love relationship that she thought and hoped would be her future.

The decision was because of infidelity.

Infidelity is not uncommon AND breakups because of it is not uncommon either.

What is unique about this story today?

You see, when most are faced with infidelity a few things typically happen . AND those things typically include BLAME, GOSSIP and staying stuck in a VICTIM mindset.

Although those patterns can feel comforting in the moment, they do not serve a place in healing and learning.

Today's chat with Jen is  not about blame , or gossip or about  being a victim. It is about being responsible, owning your voice, listening to your instincts, sharing your story and being RESPONSIBLE in your healing.

Join in today and learn how Jen truly LEVELED UP and created EVERYTHING from Nothing.

In this episode, you will learn:

  • How you should listen to your intuition 
  • How to not make excuses when the truth it apparent
  • Why it's not about blame, but acceptance
  • Ways you're able to move through infidelity 

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hi, I'm Natalie Jill, fat loss expert turned high performance coach.

0:07.2

When odds are stacked against us, how do we shift and create everything from nothing?

0:11.0

How do we level up when we aren't feeling it yet or we've had a big setback?

0:15.2

On this podcast, I'll be talking to some of the most inspiring and courageous men and women on this planet who, at their

0:20.9

worst, learned how to achieve success greater than they ever dreamed possible, leveling up and

0:26.9

creating everything from nothing. Dr. Jen S. Care, aka Doc Jen Fit, made a very tough decision

0:37.3

before the holidays. To walk away from our love

0:39.9

relationship that she thought and hoped would be her future. The decision was because of

0:45.4

infidelity. Now, infidelity is not uncommon and breakups because of it is not uncommon either.

0:52.1

What's unique about her story today? You see, when most are faced

0:55.7

with infidelity, a few things typically happen, and those things include blame, gossip, and staying

1:03.0

stuck in victim mindset. Although those patterns can feel comforting in the moment, they do not

1:08.2

serve a place in healing or learning. Today's chat with Jen is

1:12.5

not about blame or gossip or about being a victim. It's about being responsible, owning your voice,

1:18.9

listening to your instincts, sharing your story, and being responsible for your healing. Join in today

1:25.4

and learn how Jen truly leveled up and created everything from

1:29.4

nothing. Today I've got my good friend, Jen S.KR's on leveling up, creating everything from nothing.

1:35.9

I was so excited to have you back, Jen. Truth be told, I actually interviewed Jen last week,

1:41.2

and the episode was great. I will share that episode later. It was amazing.

1:45.8

And there was a shift that happened in Jen between the week that I interviewed and right now

1:51.5

and chatting as friends. I said, hey, you know what? This is something we really get to talk about

1:56.7

right now. I think it's going to serve a lot of people. So Jen is back. We will share her other

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