038: Three Things Wives Get Wrong About Husbands

The Empowered Wife Podcast: Marriage Help with Laura Doyle

Laura Doyle

Education, Relationships, Society & Culture, Self-improvement

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🗓️ 11 August 2020

⏱️ 38 minutes

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Summary

Does it seem like your husband is lazy, complains a lot, or doesn't want to spend time with you? What if none of these things were true no matter how much evidence you think you had? On today's episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we're talking about three things wives get wrong about husbands.
My guest Judith found that after 40 years of marriage, living with her husband felt more like a business arrangement than anything else. Sure it was convenient and reliable, but she missed the joy, passion and fun. Now, her relationship is even better than when they first met, and she's going to share exactly what she did to create this huge transformation.
The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week is often given to couples but instead of it encouraging vulnerability, it actually makes things worse.

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0:00.0	Welcome to the Empowered Wife podcast where it's all about fixing your relationship without
0:13.4	your man's conscious effort so you feel desired and taking care of and special
0:18.0	even if your relationship feels completely hopeless. I'm Laura Doyle and today I'm talking about three things wives get wrong about
0:25.8	husbands. I'm going to cover how to end misunderstandings and hear his heart
0:30.9	message. My guest Judith's 40-year marriage had descended into a
0:35.4	distant semi-business arrangement. It was reliable and convenient but there was
0:40.0	no fun, no passion, no joy. Now she says her marriage is full of fun and passion like
0:45.6	when they first met except better which is something she'd been trying for
0:49.8	years to achieve. She's going to reveal how she finally did it. And then I'll be giving
0:54.1	out the worst relationship advice of the Week Award, which sounds so reasonable but
0:58.1	just makes holes in the bucket of intimacy and connection in your marriage.
1:03.0	All that is coming up, but first, let's talk about three things wives get wrong about husbands.
1:08.0	Imagine if your husband did and said everything you needed to be happy in your marriage,
1:13.8	as though he were trying to win the husband of the year
1:16.8	award.
1:17.9	What kinds of things would he do differently?
1:20.0	Maybe he would redouble his efforts to clean up and maintain the house or show up more for the kids or maybe he'd be more affectionate seeking your company whenever he got the chance.
1:31.0	He's being more taken care of, he'd feel special, you'd feel desired. Wouldn't
1:36.1	that be amazing? Your husband actually does want to do all those things for you. All men want to succeed, especially with their wives. So what's stopping him?
1:47.7	It could be, and often is, that he's misunderstood. He's commaying one heart message but you're hearing
1:56.3	something else. Here are three things that wives get wrong about their husbands.
2:01.0	Number one, seeing him as lazy. Let's say you walk in
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