And so when you are confident, you will experience temporary defeat.

When you are insecure and you lack confident, you will interpret temporary defeat as failure.

Welcome to the Bedro's Cooling Show.

Hey, friends, welcome to the Bedro's Cooling Show.

I'm Bedro's Cooling and you are going to love this show today because I want to explore something that I've been getting a lot of questions about. First off, thank you all for sending me all your questions, because when I can build an episode of Bedro's Cooling Show,

or a show around your questions, I know that if one of you have a question, probably hundreds or thousands of you want that answer. So I'm happy to serve you guys. Secondly, appreciate you guys for constantly subscribing to the show, sharing the show on social media platforms and tagging me when you tag me. I always share it as well to give you guys a shout out. So thank you for that. Spotify, iTunes, YouTube, and all the platforms were blowing up. And I got some big news that I'm going to be able to share with you guys, not just yet, but it

is coming up so sit tight. And it's because of what we're doing here together as a community that's allowing us to reach even more people. So with that said, the episode today is really about about why some people win in life and continue to progress forward and seem to launch and launch and launch. And why some people seem to struggle in life and have these failures to launch. And, you know, year after year are always restarting.

They're always putting along. They feel like they're always at step A again. And I want to unpack that and I want to solve that for you because I have a feeling there's a secret to being unstoppable. And the reason I know that there's a secret to being an unstoppable human is because well, I've had the good fortune of living on both sides of the fence, right.

I've been that guy that has lived in section eight housing. I've been average. I've been mediocre. I've I've had the regular nine to fives. I've certainly put myself in a position where I focused more on pleasure and desire versus duty and purpose.

And so this new part of my life, you know, the bedros 2.0 over the last 20 years, right. I'm 48 years old now. So over the last 20 years, I've really focused on leveling up and and become the highest level version of myself.

So I can serve my businesses better. I can serve my community better. I can take better care of my family. I can live an impact. I can I can have have legacy. And let me tell you, there is a formula to being an unstoppable human.

And I've also had the good fortune that over the last 12 years, I've been able to coach and consult some of the top performing humans on the planet, New York Times best selling authors, world class entrepreneurs, medical doctors who are like specialists at what they do.

Our military men and women from every special operations community, green berets, Navy seals, Delta guys. I've even had the good fortune to work with pro athletes and help them make that transition from being an athlete into entrepreneurship.

And I started to see a common denominator into humans who are unstoppable. And believe it or not, there's nothing magical about them. There's nothing magical about me. But there are some things traits, skills, habits, behaviors, processes that you are going to need to adopt if you want to become an unstoppable human, right.

So why is it important that you become unstoppable? Well, think about this. You probably want to live a life of fulfillment, right. Like you want fulfillment. We want significance. We want purpose. Because in the absence of purpose, fulfillment, significance, we kind of feel like every day is groundhog day. Every day is a day where I'm not really moving forward.

I don't have a sense of purpose. There's this low, low undertone of anxiety and depression and overwhelm. And you just feel like you don't really matter. And that is not the best way to live as a human man. I'm telling you that right now. Like we are put on this planet. You are put on this planet to do something big, to do something great, to impact lives, to be an agent of change.

And if you believe that, like I believe that, then you want to figure out what the formula is to being unstoppable, right. So let me tell you a little story here. And you might resonate with the story because, well, quite honestly, this is the thing that really holds people back in their quest of excellence.

Like I believe the greatest work that any humans can do on this planet is our quest to become our highest level versions, right. Of ourself. Like what is the 2.0 version of you look like. Well, if you want to look like that person, then you've got to eliminate this thing I'm going to talk to you about. So gosh, about a month ago, we ran the project class 16. And when we were running class 16 of the project, there's this evolution during the project.

That's called the pit. And the pit is, it seems like a simple evolution because you're really not running. You're not hiking. You're not carrying logs. You're not fighting the ocean like you would when instructor Ray, the Navy seal puts you in the ocean during the project and you're fighting the waves and you're having to stay linked up and go through all these exercises while while also fighting the mighty ocean, right.

Like the pit is just giant dirt pit that you're for the most part as to crawl on. But it hurts. It sucks. It's long. You don't know how far you're going to go. You don't know if instructor Steve is going to make you restart the crawls in the pit.

Now, for those of you that are new to the bedroom's cool and show, you're like, what is he talking about? What is the project? The project is a 75 hour personal development program for men who want to level up in life as leaders as entrepreneurs and who want to basically unfuck themselves because of the traumas that they've had in life that are holding them back, creating limiting beliefs and creating these these glass ceilings that you might be budding up against, right.

And so the project is really a brotherhood of men for 75 hours you go through this physical, mental, emotional experience to really unpack everything to dismantle yourself and then to rebuild yourself into the better version of yourself. And then the project continues for the next 12 months upon graduation with this coaching program that I have for these mandates where we get together three times a year and we work on money and meaning, right.

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