meta_pixel
Tapesearch Logo
Log in
Counselling Tutor

009 – Power in Counselling – Carl Rogers’ Biography – Skill of Challenge – Psychopathology

Counselling Tutor

Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes

Education, Courses

4.6636 Ratings

🗓️ 9 April 2016

⏱️ 53 minutes

🧾️ Download transcript

Summary

In the ninth episode of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes talk about the role of power in the therapeutic relationship. Rory presents on the life of Carl Rogers, while Ken explains the skill of challenging. In 'Ask Ken and Rory', there is a debate about different models in psychopathology. Power in Counselling While in some modalities of therapy, counsellors may choose to portray themselves as experts, the person-centred approach advocates reducing the power imbalance between client and therapist. Making the power balance completely equal is impossible, simply because the client comes to us in distress, wanting our assistance, while we are not distressed. And in fact, even in person-centred counselling, there are several good reasons to retain some power as the therapist. First, we are professionals, who must work within the law (e.g. on confidentiality). Second, the late psychologist Petruska Clarkson spoke of the reparenting aspect of working with clients, in the sense of setting clear boundaries for them. Third, clients need to see us as dependable and able to offer hope - for example, it could be really damaging if a counsellor collapsed in tears after hearing a client's story. And last but not least, sometimes we need to refer clients to a more appropriate therapist or service. All these occasions are times when retaining an appropriate degree of power is both useful and important. However, there are ways we can avoid flaunting our power, and we must be open to clients' sensitivities in this regard. Ken illustrates this using his experience of counselling in a GP surgery, where a huge, plush chair was provided for the professional and a small, rickety one for the patient/client; he fetched another small chair in an attempt to equalise status. Other inadvertent displays of power include certificates on the wall, family pictures in the therapy room, and expensive cars outside. The key is how you, as therapist, utilise your power: like all tools, it can be used for good and for bad. Biography of Carl Rogers Rory has a special interest in the life and work of Carl Rogers. Here, he dives into some lesser-known facts about the founder of the person-centred approach to counselling. It is a story not only of humanity but also of great courage, as Rogers faced significant opposition to his new ideas, believing strongly that it was the client not the therapist - who was the expert. Rory describes Rogers': early family life agricultural experience education path to career in psychology influences and colleagues many publications. Together, these led to his development of an alternative approach to the psychoanalysis that was so popular at the time. When Rogers died in 1987, his obituary in the Guardian newspaper understatedly described him as 'the quiet revolutionary'. The Skill of Challenge Challenge (sometimes also known as 'confrontation') is an advanced skill in the therapeutic relationship. Although these terms may sound at odds with person-centred counselling, it can be useful for the client to recognise a mismatch - say between thoughts and feelings, or between words and body language. Challenge must be used with great care, and only when the therapeutic relationship (and so trust) is established. Ken provides examples of gentle challenge, and looks at how this can help clients in their gradual move from rigidity to fluidity. He recommends the book Skills in Person-Centred Counselling & Psychotherapy (Sage, 2012) by Janet Tolan, who suggests that challenge arises from the core conditions. Psychopathology What is the difference between the social model and the medical model, in terms of psychopathology (the study of mental disorders)? Simply put, the medical model draws on physical explanations for mental-health problems - e.g. chemical imbalances in the brain, to be treated using medication. Meanwhile,

Transcript

Click on a timestamp to play from that location

0:00.0

Welcome to the Counseling Tutor Podcast.

0:04.4

The must listen to podcast for students of counselling and psychotherapy.

0:10.6

Here are your hosts, Rory Lee's Oaks and Ken Kelly.

0:15.8

Hello and welcome to the Councilor Tudor podcast with me, Rory Lee's Oaks.

0:20.0

And as always with me, he's my wingman in everything therapeutic.

0:24.1

Mr Ken Kelly, how you doing, Ken?

0:25.6

Oh, not bad at all.

0:26.8

And Rory, you're looking very dashing today.

0:28.8

I can hear it in your voice that you've had a haircut.

0:31.6

Yeah, I've had a haircut, and in fact I'm recording part of this,

0:34.4

so people may be able to see the haircut. I'll put it up on the YouTube.

0:39.1

I'll put it up on the Facebook feed.

0:45.4

And if anybody's interested in joining our wonderful community of people who are learning about counseling and psychotherapy,

0:47.8

why not come to www.com.

0:53.4

Remember, there are two Ls in counseling.

0:54.6

It's not the American spelling.

0:58.6

If you go to the website and just click the button that says Facebook,

1:04.3

we have a wonderful, vibrant Facebook community of people learning or practicing counseling psychotherapy.

1:05.6

Click to join.

1:06.5

Knock on the door.

1:07.3

We'll let you in.

1:08.3

And you can join all those wonderful people, myself and Ken Popping, and say hello from time to time.

...

Please login to see the full transcript.

Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.

Generated transcripts are the property of Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.

Copyright © Tapesearch 2025.