Welcome to the Empowered Wife podcast where it's all about fixing your relationship without your man's conscious efforts that you feel desired and taking care of and special even if your relationship feels completely hopeless.

I'm Laura Doyle and this is the how to stop a controlling husband episode.

Today I'm going to show you what you can do if your husband is the controlling one in

your relationship and it's getting on your very last nerve. My guest Morbana had recently escaped a destructive

relationship and found the man of her dreams but was puzzled when some of the

same patterns from that previous relationship

showed up in her new marriage, which seemed to be deteriorating into lots of fights and

cold wars. Had she picked the wrong man again? She made an unpleasant discovery about herself that broke open the

whole mystery and started her on a journey to making her relationship safe, sweet and satisfying

again and she's going to share exactly how she did that.

Then I'll be giving out the award for the worst relationship advice of the week which so many women

have tried and failed two years to get more connection in the relationship. I did it too, didn't work, let's not all make the same mistake.

All of that is coming up at first, let's talk about the controlling husband cure, how to get him to stop before you smack him.

If he's always telling you what to do, here's what it means.

I mean, does your husband tell you how to cut an onion or how to drive what to wear

It is no fun to have someone barking orders that you like you're incompetent or maybe you're the kitchen elf who should do his bidding and you've calmly

asked him to just relax or maybe you've kind of said about it and he still

can't seem to keep himself from telling you what to do and how to do it.

It's discouraging.

Who wouldn't be defensive, right?

If you knew how to get him to stop, you really would, but nothing seems to work.

He just doesn't get the message so you struggle along

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