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Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

007 - Fundamentals: SHOP: How to Repair After a Fight

Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

Multiamory, LLC

Relationships, Sexuality, Education, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness

4.9970 Ratings

🗓️ 7 June 2015

⏱️ 57 minutes

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Summary

Have you gone to the repair SHOP? We've talked about how to disagree effectively and what to do during arguments, but what about afterwards, or with subjects that repeatedly come up in disagreements? Try the SHOP acronym: Stories, History, Ownership, and Prevention. Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.com/join. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community. Whatever you want to learn, MasterClass has something for you, taught by experts in their fields. Support the show and get an exclusive 15% offer at multiamory.link/masterclass.Skillshare is an online learning community with thousands of classes for creators. Everything from graphic design and video editing to photography, writing, and business. Get a free month of Skilllshare at multiamory.link/skillshare.Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hey there, Multiamri listener.

0:01.4

Thank you so much for being here with us.

0:03.4

If you are new here, welcome.

0:06.1

We're so happy to have you.

0:07.4

And if you're a long time listener, welcome back.

0:09.3

We're also so happy to have you here.

0:12.0

Yeah, so we've put together this group of fundamentals

0:15.2

episodes that are episodes that we often reference in other episodes. So if you

0:20.8

want to get kind of a basic foundation of our key communication tools or basic concepts that get referenced a lot, this is the place to be.

0:31.0

So if this is your first time listening you get a great

0:33.7

foundation or if you're coming back you can listen to these as a refresher

0:37.3

course. Once you've made it through our list of fundamentals then feel free to listen

0:42.1

to the rest of our episodes in whatever order you like.

0:45.4

Happy listening and we hope you enjoy.

0:48.4

Oh, okay, from your point of view, I can see how, you you know when you're sitting in traffic all

0:54.7

stressed out and then you come home stressed out and then I'm there immediate

0:58.2

upset with you I can see how that would be really upsetting or really off-putting

1:02.0

when you were expecting to come home and things

1:03.4

be fine.

1:04.4

Or, okay, well I can see from your point of view that you didn't get a message from me and I came

1:09.1

home late so I can totally understand how that would feel really lonely or concerning or upsetting.

1:15.0

And again, that's not necessarily saying like, okay, you're right or you're wrong or whatever,

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