005 - Double Bind & Commitment to Change

Pure Desire Podcast

Pure Desire Ministries

Sexual Addiction Recovery, Religion & Spirituality, Celebrate Recovery, Sexuality, Porn Recovery, Porn Addiction Recovery, Health & Fitness, Aa, Education, Betrayal Trauma, Recovery, Biblical Recovery, Christian Recovery, Healing, Sa, Christianity, Self-improvement

4.6 • 682 Ratings

🗓️ 8 August 2017

⏱️ 37 minutes

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Summary

We talk to Robert Vander Meer about the ins-and-outs of the Double Bind and Commitment to Change tools. Robert is a pastor and is also one of our Pastoral Sex Addiction Professionals. We talk through what the confusion is surrounding the Double Bind, and also discuss the keys to an effective Commitment to Change. Robert gives us his experience both as a former sex addict and now as a pastor and counselor.

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0:00.0	Welcome to the Pure Desire podcast, where we partner with thankful you're taking time out of your day to hang out with us.
0:27.4	I'm here as always with my co-host, Nick Stumbo.
0:29.7	Hey, hey, hey.
0:30.8	And we're sitting with our guest today, Robert or Bob.
0:34.2	Do you mind Bob?
0:34.9	Can we call you Bob?
0:35.8	You can call me Bob.
0:36.7	Bob Vandermeier. Don't try to spell that.
0:39.8	Bob is a pastor and is one of our pastoral sex addiction professionals.
0:44.1	Bob, welcome to the PD podcast. How you doing? I'm doing well. Thanks.
0:47.7	Right on. The sad part about podcasting with Bob is that you cannot see his magnificent beard.
0:54.0	So hopefully one day we'll transition
0:56.1	to video podcasts and you'll be able to see it. Yeah, don't be weird with the beard over there,
0:59.9	please. But today we are going to talk about two tools that we use in most of our content,
1:05.6	the double bind and the commitment to change. These tools can be super helpful if they're done
1:09.9	right and understood properly.
1:11.7	So Bob's going to help us talk through that today. But Bob, we're just going to jump in,
1:15.9	but first I want you to just tell us a little bit about your background, your story, and about your
1:20.5	family. So just fill us in. Sure. Do I have a time limit? It's your call. All right, perfect.
1:27.1	Originally from Las Vegas, Nevada, born and raised there, and that's where I It's your call. All right, perfect.
1:27.5	Originally from Las Vegas, Nevada, born and raised there, and that's where I started my journey
1:32.4	in life as a Christian and as a sex addict.
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