EXPANDED Podcast by To Be Magnetic™

Have you ever wondered why you can be deeply authentic, doing the inner work, showing up with integrity—and still feel unseen? In this episode, Lacy, Jessica, and Janelle unpack the missing link between authenticity and magnetism: your signal. Your signal is the clarity that comes from knowing who you are without needing external validation to confirm it, and feeling safe enough to express it without collapsing under rejection or misunderstanding. From social media personas to boundaries and nervous system safety, this conversation reveals the deeper layers of manifestation that shape how your authentic self is received by the world. If you've ever felt caught between wanting to be seen and fearing what visibility might cost you, this one's for you. You’ll find tools for strengthening your signal, healing rejection wounds, and stepping into your next level of authentic expression with clarity, integrity, and self-trust. And if you’re ready to shine with full luminosity and step into your power, join the Be Seen Challenge, kicking off June 1. The world—and your next level—awaits. Find the complete show notes here → https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 29 May 2026

What if the version of success you've been chasing is actually the thing keeping you trapped? Today we welcome back executive coach and bestselling author Keren Eldad (Gilded: Breaking Free from the Cage of Ambition, Perfectionism, and the Relentless Pursuit of More) to unpack the hidden emotional architecture beneath ambition, manifestation, perfectionism, and the relentless pursuit of "more." Jessica and Keren explore why so many high-achievers manifest the external markers of success—money, relationships, recognition, opportunities—yet still feel anxious, disconnected, or deeply unfulfilled. If that sounds familiar, this episode offers a roadmap for anyone ready to stop building gilded cages and start living from authenticity, openness, and genuine self-worth. As we navigate this new chapter of soul-led visibility, this conversation is one you won't want to miss. Your higher self is calling.

Transcribed - Published: 22 May 2026

What if the very thing you desire most—love, abundance, purpose, fulfillment—is waiting on the other side of feeling safe to truly be seen? This week, Jessica, Lacy, and Janelle unpack the roots of visibility wounds and how childhood conditioning, family dynamics, societal programming, and nervous system protection can keep us hiding from our authentic selves. They explore the subtle ways we abandon our truth to stay safe from people-pleasing and shape-shifting to fear of vulnerability and rejection, and why reclaiming your gifts is the key to true magnetism. If you've ever felt afraid to fully express yourself, share your gifts, speak your truth, or take up space, this conversation is a loving permission slip to stop hiding and finally let yourself bloom. Find the complete show notes here → https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 15 May 2026

What if the hardest part of manifestation isn’t getting what you want, but feeling worthy enough to deserve it? In this deeply expansive episode, Jessica welcomes Alexis Marie West for a conversation on manifestation, generational healing, boundaries, and the art of truly receiving. Alexis shares her remarkable journey from growing up amidst addiction, instability, and survival-mode conditioning to manifesting a peaceful dream home, financial security, creative freedom, and authentic self-worth. Together, they unpack the uncomfortable integration phase that happens after manifestations land, the emotional reality of setting boundaries with loved ones, and how reclaiming creativity becomes the gateway back to your authentic self. This episode is a powerful reminder that healing isn’t about perfection—it’s about choosing yourself again and again until your external reality finally reflects the safety and abundance you've always deserved. Find the complete show notes here → https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 8 May 2026

What if the opportunities you’re waiting for don’t go to the most qualified… but to the most visible? What if being seen is the missing piece to your next level? Today, we’re stepping into something new with our first-ever in-studio recording featuring TBMer, author, and career strategist Courtney Johnson. She joins Jessica to break down the truth about visibility, personal branding, and authentic career expansion in today’s evolving landscape. Together, they explore why success is no longer about grinding harder, but about showing up more truthfully, consistently, and unapologetically. Courtney cuts through the noise with clear, actionable ways to shine your light and share your magic. This conversation redefines what it means to be seen—and that it’s not about oversharing or abandoning your boundaries. You’ll learn practical ways to express your value and build a personal brand that reflects both your internal and external world. Whether you’re an entrepreneur, creative, or navigating corporate life, this episode offers tools to expand your visibility without compromising your authenticity. And if you’ve been feeling stuck, unseen, or unsure how to step into your next level, this episode will remind you that your voice, story, and perspective are exactly what the world is waiting for. Find the complete show notes here → https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 1 May 2026

Are you torn between being authentic and just surviving in today's world? What if authenticity, rather than effort or optimization, is the real currency now? This episode dives deep into the energetic shifts of the new paradigm and why so many people are feeling tension, confusion, and major internal clearing. Lacy and Jessica explore what it means to live in alignment while operating inside an outdated system—and why authenticity, integrity, and inner truth are becoming the true drivers of manifestation. From nervous system regulation and energetic cord cutting to redefining success beyond hustle culture, this conversation unpacks how to navigate the in-between without surrendering your truest desires. If you've been questioning your path, purpose, or how to move forward in a rapidly changing world, this episode is your permission slip to trust your intuition, honor your authenticity, and step into a more easeful, aligned way of living. Find the complete show notes here → https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 24 April 2026

What if what you deserve is already here, just waiting for you to be ready? Could releasing the timeline be the medicine that finally lets you connect with it? In this episode, Jessica pulls back the curtain on a major manifestation that's been unfolding over 4 years. She shares the layers of healing, growth, and understanding she's moved through—and what she discovered was actually standing between her and what she was calling in. Jessica opens up about her own blocks and unhealed parts of her inner narrative, including the trap of obsessing over optimization and future-proofing. She explores how releasing control and stepping into embodied presence became the real work—and why trusting the present moment, rather than fixating on what's next, actually moved her toward her goals. If you're waiting on something big to manifest, this episode will help you trust your unique timeline, get out of your own way, and connect with what’s meant to be yours. Find the complete show notes here → https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 17 April 2026

What if financial freedom wasn’t about hustling and doing more, but about becoming the version of you who can receive it? In this expansive conversation, Jessica sits down with spiritual investor Elizabeth Ralph to explore what it really means to engage with money, wealth, and investing from a conscious, heart-led place. They unpack the shift from the old paradigm of hustle, control, and fear-based earning to a new paradigm rooted in alignment, authenticity, trust, and true financial freedom. Elizabeth shares how redefining freedom as ease transformed her life, why money is just energy, and how investing can become an act of expansion rather than fear. She also reveals what building wealth looks like without sacrificing your integrity. This episode is a powerful invitation to release scarcity, reclaim your power, and step into a more liberated relationship with abundance, business, and your most authentic self. Find the complete show notes here → https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 10 April 2026

This week, we're sitting down with Carly Ottaway—Pathway member and author of Coming Home—to explore the profound transformation that emerges from life's most destabilizing moments. From navigating fertility struggles to losing her home in a fire, Carly opens up about how surrender, self-trust, and deep inner work became her greatest anchors through the unthinkable. Together, they unpack the illusion of control, the healing power of authenticity, and how speaking from the heart unlocks your most magnetic self. This conversation is a reminder that even in your darkest chapters, you are being guided toward something more aligned, expansive, and true. If you've ever felt like everything is falling apart, this episode will show you how it might actually be falling into place. And if you’re ready to start understanding your patterning, now is the time to take advantage of our Pathway Membership Spring Sale. $30/month $23/month now until April 5th at 11:59 PST. Find the complete show notes here → https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 3 April 2026

You’re fine…so why do you feel stuck? Where is the fear coming from, even when you know you’re safe? The truth is, lasting change requires more than mindset work alone. It means training your nervous system to build new associations with things that once felt uncertain or threatening. Today, Lacy, Jessica, and somatic expert Janelle unpack the true role of the nervous system in manifestation. They explore how your body's sense of safety determines when to shut down and protect you from potential threats—and when to expand, receive, and take aligned action towards your goals. Plus, the small, doable steps ("small steppies") that lead you back to yourself. If you've ever felt stuck despite doing all the inner work, this episode is your roadmap back to safety, embodiment, and sustainable growth. Want to know where you stand with your nervous system? Take our free Nervous System Quiz and check the show notes for more DIs and resources inside the Pathway membership. Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 27 March 2026

What if the moments that completely unravel your life are actually the ones that reveal your purpose? This week, Jessica sits down with Spirit Daughter founder Jill Wintersteen for the untold story behind her spiritual work. Known for her astrology insights, moon rituals, and intuitive teachings, Jill opens up about the chaotic chapter that shaped it all: a federal investigation connected to her partner, life under constant fear, and what it took to rebuild from rock bottom. Through breathwork, meditation, and deep inner healing, Jill shares how nervous system regulation, Internal Family Systems (IFS), and forgiveness moved her from survival mode into alignment with her intuition. As she released shame and healed old relationship patterns, she found her purpose, built Spirit Daughter, and manifested the grounded partnership she once thought was impossible. If manifestation feels clear in theory but difficult in practice, this episode explores why tending to your nervous system and working with your protector parts may be the key to finally expanding into the life you want. Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 20 March 2026

We’ve never done an episode quite like this before. We sat down with writer and creative Allie Carr—twice. In October 2025, she was just beginning to emerge from a really difficult chapter. When we spoke again in February 2026, her spark for life was fully back, and the seeds she had planted were unfolding in real time. In the months between, Allie moved through a Saturn return, career pivots, financial uncertainty, and a deep shedding of who she used to be. What looked like falling apart was actually falling into place. This conversation is a reminder that manifestation often has a full arc: the breakdown, the becoming, and the moment it all clicks. If you’re in your own hard season right now, this episode is your life raft. Want to see where her journey began? Watch her original episode on our YouTube channel. Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 13 March 2026

What if your core wounds aren't things to conquer, but parts of yourself that just need to be seen, heard, and understood? And what if the reason manifestation feels effortless in your imagination but impossible in action has nothing to do with motivation…and everything to do with your nervous system? This week, Jessica sits down with somatic therapist and parts work expert Sarah Baldwin for a conversation that will completely reframe how you understand manifestation. Together, they explore why your nervous system calls the shots on what you attract, and how the self-protective patterns you developed as a child are quietly keeping you from stepping into your purpose, relationships, visibility, and expansion as an adult. Using Somatic Experiencing & Internal Family Systems (IFS) and spiritual practices, Sarah explains how our minds are made up of different "parts" — inner voices or emotional states, each with their own fears and roles. The parts that learned to protect you in childhood don't disappear; they keep running in the background, quietly shaping what you believe you're allowed to have. Unblocking starts with getting curious about those parts rather than fighting them, and learning to become a loving, attuned parent to your inner child. With nervous system regulation and parts work, you'll move through fear without forcing it, gradually expanding your capacity to hold more goodness. If manifestation feels clear in theory but sticky in practice, this episode will show you why, and guide you in softening the walls that have been keeping you from the life you've been waiting for. Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 6 March 2026

What if the dream feels “too big” because you haven’t built the capacity to hold it yet? What if success isn’t missing you—but waiting for you to feel safe enough to receive it? This week, Jessica sits down with actress Karolina Wydra (Pluribus, Sneaky Pete) to talk about the long game of manifestation. From growing up in communist Poland and internalizing scarcity and suppression, to stepping away from acting at 39 to become a mother, Karolina’s story is one of surrender, self-trust, and divine timing. It’s a true testimony to something central at TBM: what is meant for you will not miss you. After years of inner work, Karolina landed a life-changing role on Pluribus, fulfilling a longtime manifestation of working with Vince Gilligan. Through EMDR, nervous system regulation, Expanders, journaling, and radical honesty with herself, she shares how subconscious reprogramming helped her release the belief that her dreams were “too big” and instead expand her capacity to receive them. If you’ve ever feared success as much as failure, this conversation is a reminder that manifestation isn’t about forcing—it’s about becoming safe enough to hold what you’ve been calling in. Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 27 February 2026

Feeling like the wheels are coming off your life—or the world? The Year of the Fire Horse is here, and the old paradigm is dissolving fast. For some, it feels like rock bottom. For others, a slow unraveling. This week, Lacy and Jessica unpack the collective stripping, ego deaths, and visibility fears rising to the surface—and why this acceleration is actually a portal into your most authentic self. If you’ve been stuck in perfectionism, burned out by optimization culture, or clear on your purpose but unable to move, this episode unpacks what’s happening beneath the surface. Through the lens of TBM tools, human design, Chinese astrology, and nervous system regulation, they explain why hustle, formulas, and “matrix authenticity” won’t carry you into the new paradigm—but why a more aligned, authentic approach will. This season isn’t about fear. It’s about releasing what no longer fits so something truer can emerge. The real question is: are you ready to stop performing and step into your true purpose? Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 20 February 2026

Are your friendships or relationships feeling unaligned, unclear, or just plain confusing? Are you doing the work but still not experiencing the depth of connection you truly crave? Right now, we’re in the midst of a collective relationship reckoning. In this potent episode, Jessica breaks down why manifesting love, intimacy, and deep friendship can feel harder than ever—and why it’s reflecting the exact parts of you that are ready to be healed. If you're feeling romantically adrift, unseen, or wondering why your dream partner or soul-aligned friendships haven’t arrived yet, this episode will help unlock your next step forward. It’s not just about recognizing patterns; it’s about stepping into the version of you who can say no to what no longer fits, stay regulated in the face of fear, and source your worth from within. With real expander stories and powerful energetic reframes, this episode is a must-listen if you’re ready to deepen your relationships from a place of embodied self-love. Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 13 February 2026

What if the real reason you can’t hear your intuition is that there hasn’t been enough space to listen? If your intuition feels quiet (or chaotic) you’re not alone. In this potent episode, Jessica welcomes back medium and spiritual teacher Taylor Paige for an expansive conversation on what it truly takes to connect with your intuitive gifts in our fast-paced, overstimulated world. Together, they explore why nervous system regulation is the gateway to intuition and spiritual awakening, how “clearing the cobwebs” of mental noise is a non-negotiable step, and how healing the spirit wound allows you to reclaim your power as your own oracle. Taylor shares the link between nervous system work, intuition, and manifestation, and reminds us that intuition isn’t something a select few are born with. It’s something we all carry. If you’ve ever thought, “I just don’t have intuition,” this conversation gently invites you to reconsider that limiting belief. From getting comfortable with silence, allowing emotions to move through you, and understanding how your healing ripples outward, to realizing that the pings and downloads you’ve been waiting for may have been knocking all along, there’s something in this conversation meant to meet you exactly where you are. Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 6 February 2026

Need a reminder of what’s possible, and that you’re in beautiful company doing this work? This episode is packed with expanders to inspire your path forward. Expansion serves a very specific purpose: to rewire neural pathways, so that you can see what’s possible before your subconscious believes it’s possible for you. (It’s the very reason this podcast is called Expanded!) And expansion is everywhere: through friends, parents, peers, public figures, and even people you’ve never met. Today, we hear powerful manifestation stories from the Money Challenge and Return to Magic Challenge that span inner child healing, resilience through rock bottoms, magnetic parenting, and a deeper embrace of magic. These real-life testimonials reveal how surrender, nervous system safety, and authentic alignment create lasting change. Your mantra this week comes from an expander in this episode: “What I’m calling in is still coming.” Stay present. The magic is already here. Your greatest manifestations start with your authenticity. Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 30 January 2026

Are you overthinking…or under-processing? What if reflection was the missing piece to becoming (and receiving) everything you’ve ever wanted? Today, Tara Schuster returns to the Expanded Podcast to explore one of the most impactful healing modalities there is: journaling. Her latest book, This Journal F*cking Works, offers a science-backed and historical look at why journaling is so powerful, woven together with humor and Tara’s own journey of rewriting internal narratives to break free from toxic, repetitive thought loops. It’s an invitation to start “DMing with your soul” and to open up neural pathways of self-understanding, emotional processing, and healing. Jessica and Tara unpack why ritual matters. Not everything is about maximizing habits, productivity, or “doing it right.” Real transformation often comes from giving your brain space to process lived experience: to be honest, imperfect, and fully human. With this outlook, journaling becomes a bridge between science and intuition, seamlessly supporting your own TBM and personal growth practice. This conversation is for anyone who feels stuck in mental loops, wants a grounded and research-backed way to connect more deeply with intuition, and yearns to understand who they are at their core. Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 23 January 2026

What if the chapter that once fit you perfectly is meant to close for something bigger and better? Brand marketer and TBM team member Eugenia Ali shares her deeply honest journey of unraveling corporate success to build a life rooted in intuition, creativity, and self-trust. From climbing the ranks at Google to honoring the whispers of the universe, Eugenia walks us through the tender process of healing her core wound of belonging, reconnecting with her inner child through the Return to Magic Challenge, and manifesting a career that finally feels like home. Eugenia’s story is kismet, full of magic, and winks from the universe. What truly sets her apart is her willingness to meet obstacles head-on and take action. Whether you’re just beginning to notice intuitive pings, feeling the call but unsure of your next step, or a seasoned manifester seeking deeper alignment, Eugenia is your newest Expander. **Trigger warning: Discussion of miscarriage and the toll of stress on the body** Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 16 January 2026

What if you knew yourself well enough to know when a decision is aligned on a soul level? As the Year of the Snake comes to a close, we’re completing a season of stripping away what no longer fits, what we’ve outgrown, what we’re finally ready to release. What remains beneath it all? And do you trust and know yourself enough to follow it? In this solo episode, Jessica offers a grounded reframe for entering the new year with self-trust and intention—without the pressure of making it your “best year yet.” She explores how real alignment comes from honoring subtle, daily shifts, allowing both expansion and contraction, and making space for embodied “no’s” that protect your nervous system and energy. This episode dives into manifestation through the lens of the new paradigm, which is rooted in self-worth, clarity, and ease rather than force. If you’re feeling caught between motivation and resistance, this conversation will help you reconnect with your inner knowing and move forward with confidence. Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 9 January 2026

What if we let go of “new year, new me” and stepped into “new year, real me?” What if welcoming back the parts of yourself you’ve been sidelining is the most magnetic way to begin 2026? In this powerful kickoff to the year, Lacy and Jessica explore the energetics of the portal between the winter solstice and the New Year—a scientifically and spiritually potent window for quantum-level manifestation. Together, they unpack the theme of purpose: not just career, but the soul’s authentic expression across all areas of life. You’ll learn how to reconnect with your inner child, tune into intuitive pings, and navigate the collective shifts shaping the new paradigm. This episode is both a grounded guide and a gentle invitation to step into 2026 with clarity, intention, and alignment—rooted in your truest self. Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 2 January 2026

We’re closing out the year by revisiting one of our most loved and impactful episodes of 2025. Especially during our end-of-year Return to Magic Challenge, this conversation on manifestation tests feels more relevant than ever. Jessica and Lacy break down the seven most common types of manifestation tests, from scarcity and ego to boundaries and core wounds. They offer clear insight into how to recognize these tests, reframe your perspective, and move through them with greater self-trust. This replay is a powerful reminder that every challenge is an invitation to step deeper into your most magnetic, authentic self. Whether this is your first listen or a return visit, it’s an episode you’ll come back to again and again on your manifestation journey. And if you’re feeling called, it’s not too late to join the Return to Magic Challenge. A season of nurturing, creativity, and magnetism awaits! Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 26 December 2025

What would change if you had unshakeable self-worth? If judgment fell away and you tended to yourself with pure compassion, what version of self would come forward? In this episode—a continuation of our Inner Child Phases series—Lacy, Jessica, and LMFT EMDR Therapist Janelle explore the final three stages of inner child development: Creativity & Play (ages 3-5), Confidence & Competence (ages 5-3), and Authentic Identity & Belonging (ages 13-21). These foundational years are where your creativity, passion, and your truest, weirdest self come into being. For many of us, this is also where shame, conditioning, and “shoulds” begin to hide our light. This challenge is designed to restore a sense of safety, nurturing, and self-trust—so you can reconnect with who you’ve always been (and were always meant to be). A reminder for whoever needs it: you’re allowed to play for play’s sake. To slow down, create beauty, and experience joy simply because it feels good. When you quiet the inner critic and reconnect with curiosity and creativity, you give your inner child permission to live in their truth. It’s time to return to your magic. **Trigger warning: We discuss healing from sexual abuse and trauma from 48:00 through 50:40** Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 19 December 2025

What if the deeper purpose of your career, relationships, or home wasn’t about the goal itself, but about reconnecting with the truest version of you? In this heartfelt conversation, actress Beth Behrs (Two Broke Girls, The Neighborhood) joins Jessica to explore the evolution of her manifestation practice—from hyper-specific manifestation lists in her 20s to soul-rooted simplicity in her late 30s. Through TBM tools, EMDR, the grounding presence of horses, and motherhood, Beth shares how healing childhood wounds of feeling “not enough” helped her redefine purpose, release perfectionism, and rediscover joyful creativity. Though there’s no single roadmap to success in creative fields, Beth's story offers powerful expansion for anyone with a deep drive who’s willing to follow the universe’s signals toward aligned expression. It’s a reminder that passion and purpose are allowed to evolve—and that anchoring into authenticity is what life is truly about. This episode is an invitation to soften, surrender, and reconnect with the artist, the child, and the soul within. Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 12 December 2025

What if the way your needs were met in infancy still shapes your ability to feel safe, seen, and supported today? Welcome to the end-of-year challenge: The Return to Magic. Today, Lacy, Jessica, and EMDR-certified LMFT Janelle dive deep into the foundation of all manifestation work: your earliest subconscious blueprint set in childhood. This episode explores the powerful programming from ages zero to 18 months. It’s a period most people don’t remember, but it’s when your soul touched down into your human body—and profoundly shapes who you are today. This early stage is where safety, secure relationships, and boundaries are formed, and Janelle helps us understand how the presence (or absence) of these things can leave us feeling out of balance. This conversation is a reminder that our TBM practice is here to bring us back to our most whole selves. We are not destined to stay stuck in old patterns or loops that don’t serve us. We can start from the very beginning and manifest the lives we’re meant to embody. This is the work that changes everything. It’s time to return to your magic. Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 5 December 2025

How much has your inner child been running the show? What parts have been hiding, stuck in a loop, or calling out for attention? This end-of-year challenge has been a long time coming. We’re going straight to the core: childhood, where we first learn (or don’t learn) safety, trust, boundaries, independence, creativity, playfulness, and joy. You’ll embark on a somatic journey through every developmental phase to reclaim what’s been buried and bypassed to reparent your inner child and reprogram the blocks standing in your way. Whether you’ve been with TBM since the beginning or you’re joining from the book tour, this is your invitation to step into the cocoon and rewire for what’s next. This challenge is our gift to you—and your portal to alignment, clarity, deep healing, and magnetism. Reminder: Our biggest sale ever is live! Take 30% off your Pathway membership just in time for the challenge and step into this next year as your most magnetic, aligned version of self. Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 26 November 2025

Where have you been hiding? From others—or from yourself? And what might happen if you finally allowed yourself to be fully, fearlessly seen? In this work, we root back into our whole, worthy, authentic selves—the magical selves we arrived as before the layers of societal programming settled in. In this conversation with TBM member and author Karin Hadadan, we’re reminded that we can return to, uncover, and embrace that perfect inner child. Karin’s manifestation process isn’t about calling in material things, but about reconnecting to her truest self: her unblocked emotional range, her body’s innate healing, and a divine meeting with her soul’s essence. She shares her journey through chronic illness, external success, and the profound inner shift from “I’m not enough. I’m too much” to “I am enough. I am whole.” We explore childhood cultural imprints, body-image wounds, the fear of being seen, and the moment of surrender that changes everything. If you’re ready to step off the gas pedal of achievement and into the stillness of being, this episode is your invitation into your next level of growth. Reminder: Our biggest sale ever is live! Take 30% off your Pathway membership just in time for the Return to Magic Challenge and step into this next year as your most magnetic, aligned version of self. Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 21 November 2025

If you turned down the noise and quieted all distractions for just a moment…what would rise to the surface? What would your soul call out for? If this season has felt chaotic, you’re not alone. This solo episode with Jessica is a much-needed moment of reflection, and a reminder that the magic within you is still very much alive. Your purpose wants to be illuminated this season, and the universe is speeding up to connect you to your authentic self faster. It’s inviting you to shed your limiting beliefs, make that career leap, or reflect on the relationship you’re staying small in to prioritize what truly feeds your soul. So take this moment to slow down, release control, and get curious on the roadmap being laid out in front of you. Whether it’s leaning into a moment with your children or nourishing your inner child’s need to sing, paint, or move, it’s time to start taking steps toward what lights you up and feels uniquely you. If you’re craving deeper purpose and clarity in your life, navigating a testy period, or simply being called to a slower pace, this episode is your reminder that your authenticity is your north star. It’s not about getting it “right” or being perfect—it’s about connecting to your magic and becoming who you came here to be. Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 14 November 2025

What could life look like if you had the tools and expansion to step through fear, stop playing small, and step fully into your potential? Today, we’re joined by Human Design expert and creator of the Align app Jenna Zoe for her first official Process episode. Jenna shares how Lacy was one of the few people to truly vision-hold for her and encourage her to step into her gifts, and how the TBM tools helped her ground, attune, and surrender to the universe’s will—reinforcing her faith that she was exactly where she was meant to be. Jenna reflects on completing the Money Challenge twice, unlocking more lightness, abundance, and the WHY in her career—along with profound realizations about love, her relationship with her parents, and multi-generational healing. Jenna’s story holds major expansion for anyone on the cusp of deeper fulfillment, self-acceptance, and true embodied authenticity. Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 7 November 2025

What if you stopped doubting your gifts and started letting them lead? If you’ve ever felt a message come through a dream, sensed a shift when you walked into a room, or just *knew* something you “shouldn’t,” your intuition might be stronger than you think. In this episode, Lacy and Jessica sit down with medium and energetic clearer Karen McGowan (aka Lacy’s mom!) for a no-gatekeeping conversation on what it really means to live with spiritual gifts. Karen shares it all — from her first spirit visit as a child to the symbols she’s learned to trust and the way she clears heavy energy from people and spaces. You’ll learn how she protects her energy, stays grounded while tapping into her psychic abilities, and bridges the spiritual with the practical. As the veil thins ahead of Halloween, we explore the magic of Samhain, ancestral connection, and the power of spiritual sovereignty. This episode is your reminder to trust what you feel, set energetic boundaries like a badass, and stop second-guessing your gifts. **Trigger warning: Loss of a child and profound grief from 44:44 through 50:00** Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 31 October 2025

What if it all works out? What if what you desire is closer than you think? In this powerful episode, you’ll hear inspiring stories from TBM members—real people in our community who’ve used the work to manifest everything from aligned partners and dream careers to a deeper sense of grounding and abundance. This episode is a reminder that the life you desire is possible. The magic of the universe, and the magic within you, belongs to you. These stories come from people doing the work just like you, who’ve tapped into their magnetism in profound ways. We hope you feel inspired, empowered, and excited by what’s possible. This is what we call expansion. And as a cherry on top, we’re celebrating the ultimate manifestation: How to Manifest, the new TBM book. This long-awaited tool can be accessed by anyone, and we can’t wait to hear what it unlocks for you. Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 24 October 2025

Finally—your go-to episode to share with friends and family that breaks down TBM’s method is here! In this episode, Lacy and Jessica dive into How to Manifest—the new book that distills the To Be Magnetic method into a clear, accessible, and deeply impactful guide. Whether you’re a long-time Pathway member or new to manifestation, this conversation unpacks the formula that’s helped tens of thousands transform their lives. Lacy shares the book’s unexpected origin, why it feels like a collective download from the brand’s wisdom, and how its analog format expands your subconscious offline. You’ll hear how EMDR-informed, IFS-inspired, and somatic practices are woven into a deeply intuitive framework, creating the most grounded, magnetic roadmap to your authenticity. Plus, get the scoop on the speaking tour, upcoming book club, and why now is the perfect time to connect with your magic. Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 17 October 2025

You asked, we listened—Dr. Tara Swart is back! This episode offers a powerful exploration of the bridge between science and spirit, exploring how modern research continues to meet ancestral wisdom through experiences like clairvoyance, clairsentience, and intuition. While discussing her new book and the profound spiritual awakening that followed her husband’s passing, something extraordinary happens: Dr. Tara receives a real-time message from the other side—mutually called in by Dr. Tara and Jessica, and channeled by Lacy. What begins as a conversation about grief, neuroscience, and intuition unfolds into an incredible moment of live mediumship, as Lacy connects with Tara’s late husband, Robin, delivering a message so full of love and clarity it transforms the entire space. This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating grief, awakening their intuitive gifts, or seeking confirmation that our loved ones never truly leave us. **Content warning: This episode includes an exploration of grief and loss throughout - please take care while listening.** Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 10 October 2025

What if everything goes right? What if we looked to the future with excitement and joy? In this ultra-expansive conversation, Libby DeLana invites us into her wildly magnetic life shaped by daily walking, attention, and playing at the edges. Wise expander and author of This Morning Walk and Cold Joy, Libby has modeled for iconic brands, manifested deeply aligned relationships, and continues to manifest beyond her wildest dreams—even in her 60s. Together, Jessica and Libby explore moving beyond identity loops, aging as expansion, and finding magic and tenderness in the present. Libby reminds us to follow joy, stay curious, and embrace new experiences with grounded regulation—whether through cold plunges or setting down our rigid, limiting beliefs. This conversation offers gentle permission to step toward what feels alive, one small step at a time. Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 3 October 2025

How would it feel if you decided—just for a moment—to let the universe hold you and guide you? Do you feel peace and release? Or anxiety and panic? If it’s the latter, you’re likely struggling with fear of letting go, being hyper-focused on outcomes, or needing to ground into safety. This episode is here to remind you that surrender may be your medicine. In this round table discussion, Lacy, Jessica, and Janelle dive deep into one of the hardest but most transformative parts of manifestation: surrender. They unpack what surrender really means—beyond the vague “just let go”—and how it shows up in our bodies, our relationships, and our manifestation process. From identifying ego attachments and timelines, to navigating envy and resentment, to following joy pings as a portal to alignment, this episode is both expansive and grounding. If you’ve ever wondered how to release control, this conversation will change how you see surrender forever. It’s not about giving up. It’s about opening more space to dance with the universe. Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 26 September 2025

What if the fear of falling short is the very thing keeping you from your own greatness? In this vulnerable episode, Elizabeth Enders, host of The Wellness Process Podcast, gets real about her journey through rock-bottom moments—chronic health struggles, a challenging breakup, and a deep-rooted fear of staying stuck. She shares how, through the TBM work, she was able to move through a relationship ending and failed podcast to manifesting her dream partner and launching her most soul-aligned and successful business yet. Elizabeth opens up about what it really takes to connect with your authentic self: energetic clearing, daily rituals, and manifesting not just external wins but true emotional freedom. Her story is a powerful reminder that the inner work ripples into every area of your life, and that living from your authentic essence is the fastest road to your dreams. Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 19 September 2025

Where are you giving your power away—and how can you take it back? In this powerful solo episode, our very own Jessica Gill explores one of the most foundational themes in manifestation: maintaining self-worth in the in-between. She explores why self-doubt often shows up as the “final boss” before your next level, how the uncomfortable middle ground is actually preparing you to hold the new, and the small ways you can build confidence by showing up for yourself daily. From unblocking hidden fears of unlikability to shifting perfectionism into self-compassion, this conversation will remind you that your power and magic have been with you all along, and even the most challenging moments serve as an initiation to meet them. Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 12 September 2025

You’re ready to leave old narratives behind—but what comes next? How do we truly break those deep-rooted cycles? In this empowering episode, Jessica sits down with author, podcaster, and spiritual thoughtleader Elise Loehnen, whose latest workbook, Choosing Wholeness Over Goodness, guides us through that “what now?” space. They explore how envy and expansion are connected, why we’re never truly alone when struggling with cultural programming, and how to truly release the stories that hold us back. Sharing their own experiences with external validation, fear of lack, and the need for control, they offer a roadmap to rewrite the scripts of perfection, scarcity, and performance, move from awareness to embodiment, reclaim your power, and trust your inner knowing. Overachievers, entrepreneurs, perfectionists, manifestors, and manifesting generators—this episode is sure to empower and inspire you. Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 5 September 2025

Are you being tested? Life is full of those frustrating moments—an unexpected bill, a toxic job dynamic, or an unaligned romantic suitor. This episode is your pick-me-up on how to navigate tests and what they really mean in manifestation terms. Lacy and Jessica share that tests aren’t here to punish us—they’re here to show if we’re truly ready for what we’re calling in. Each test reflects our subconscious self-worth, asking us to notice old patterns and choose differently this time. Through live channelings, grounded insights, and real-time examples, they walk you through the TBM approach to moving through life’s tests with clarity and power. Because your manifestations are already orbiting, and every test is the universe knocking to see if you’re ready to receive it. Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 29 August 2025

What if your dream life was on the other side of the fear of being “cringe?” In this expansive Process episode, Jessica sits down with TBM community member Alexandria to explore what it looks like to manifest from alignment when everything familiar falls away. From starting out as a fitness influencer to becoming a retreat host and conscious creator, Alexandria shares how she moved through the fear of being seen, reconnected with her inner child, and followed intuitive pings that led her to quit her job, heal old wounds, and sell out her first retreat—all without a perfect plan in place. Together, they dive deep into the power of expanders, the role of vision holders, the energetics of desperation, and why honoring your nervous system is the key to your most aligned, magnetic life. **Trigger warning: Discussion of alcoholism and parental loss at 19:07 through 23:54 Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 22 August 2025

What if those old blocks resurfacing were simply the universe clearing the cobwebs for your next level? In Expanded’s seventh anniversary reflection, Lacy and Jessica pull back the curtain on life after the Money Challenge—sharing candid updates, emotional shifts, and the deep initiations they’ve navigated. Together, they explore how manifestation isn’t always about striving for more, but often about slowing down, feeling deeply, and reclaiming your authentic rhythm. If you’re in a season of uncertainty, frustration, or stagnation, this episode will remind you: nothing’s wrong with you. You’re simply being prepared to hold a more aligned reality. Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 15 August 2025

If you’ve ever felt behind, disempowered with money, or unsure how to shift your abundance story, this episode is sure to expand you. In this powerful collection of community voices, TBM Pathway members open up about their Money Challenge breakthroughs. Through radical honesty and deep inner work, they uncover how the stories we’ve inherited around money can block us from truly receiving—and how transforming those beliefs unlocks portals, gifts, and miracles. Whether you’re faced with debt, wanting to open new income portals, or navigating a major manifestation you’ve finally called in, this episode will remind you that it’s all about energetics. And those energetics have a real impact on the numbers you see in your bank account. How can you become less fearful, more rooted, and ultimately unblocked with your finances? How can you slow down to see the abundance you already have? How can you manifest money and open portals with ease? These expanders are here to show you that everything you’ve been dreaming of is possible, and the Money Challenge and Pathway tools can help you map your path to magnificent abundance. Because abundance isn’t just a number—it’s a way of being. And when you start living from that energy, life meets you with more than you could ever imagine. Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 8 August 2025

What if you stopped waiting for other people to be ready and started doing and BEING everything you ever wanted? If you’ve ever questioned whether staying in something familiar—whether it’s a relationship, an identity, or a version of success—is costing you your true self, this conversation will crack your heart open. In this raw and deeply expansive episode, Jessica sits down with Almost 30’s Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik to explore the courage it takes to choose true alignment over old patterns. Krista shares the vulnerable, powerful unraveling of her marriage—and how walking away from a misaligned partnership became the portal to her truest glow-up. And Lindsey pulls back the curtain on how motherhood and partnership have sparked curiosity, alignment, and ease beyond what she thought was ever possible. At the center of it all, they explore the sacred role of friendship during life’s biggest pivots, and the gift of having someone witness your expansion and invite you towards your most magnetic self, even when you forget your own magic. For anyone walking through a season of shedding, recalibrating, or redefining what success means on your terms—this episode will feel like a breath of truth. Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 1 August 2025

What if your patterns didn’t define you, but showed you EXACTLY where you can grow? Why do we keep choosing the same people—even when we know better? If you’ve felt luckless, stuck, or so far away from the loving partnership you want in life, we’ve got the MOST expansive episode for you. In this powerful conversation, Jessica welcomes renowned relationship teacher and NYT best-selling author and podcast host, Jillian Turecki, for a grounded, radically honest look at why our love lives can feel stuck, painful, or endlessly cyclical—even after doing years of self-help work. They explore what it really means to take accountability without blame, why nervous system regulation is the missing piece in most relationship advice, and how to tell the difference between a need and a wound. Jillian opens up about her own divorce, how her father’s betrayal shaped her patterns, and what it took to fully reclaim her worth. You’ll also hear practical tools for pausing reactivity, unpacking unhealthy dynamics, and moving from “I am this” to “I’m working on this.” Whether you’re heartbroken, dating, partnered, or reflecting on your past, this episode will give you a new framework for conscious love. Healing your relationship patterns isn’t about finding the perfect person—it’s about becoming your truest self so the most aligned dynamic can find you. **Trigger Warning: Brief mention of “Big T” childhood traumas between 50:35 through 51:18 ** Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 25 July 2025

What if your biggest financial breakdown is actually the start of your breakthrough? Even when it doesn’t feel like it, the universe always has our back—gently (and sometimes not-so-gently) redirecting us toward our manifestations. It uses financial rupture as a wake-up call—an invitation to shed ego, release shiny carrots, and build a new foundation rooted in authenticity. In Part 2 of our Money Challenge Q&A episode, Lacy and Jessica dive into a range of financial topics inspired by questions from the community. Whether the rug has just been pulled out from under you, or you’re ready to step into your next financial level, this conversation offers valuable insight into what might be holding you back—and the next steps to take. You’ll hear empowering guidance on the role of aligned action and how to move through a rock bottom with grace, integrity, and nervous system regulation. They share tangible steps to take your financial power back, release ego-driven spending, and accelerate your return to abundance. The good news? Whether you’re deep in a rock bottom or reaching for your greatest manifestation to date, the TBM tools are here to support you with continual unblocking, steady growth, and deep expansion. Your safety is within. Your authentic goals are already in motion. Your abundance is here, right now. Find the complete show notes here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 18 July 2025

“Can I really get paid for being me?” This Process episode with Alyah proves that you can. And not only that, you can thrive in a way that feels deeply aligned, peaceful, and expansive. In this powerful episode, she shares how she went from underpaid and overlooked in a corporate job to building a $50K FU fund, paying off debt, and launching a soul-led freelance business—all while moving through a period of profound personal upheaval. This isn’t just a story of manifestation wins—it’s about reclaiming your worth, honoring ancestral roots, and redefining what safety and abundance look like. Alyah reveals how tools like the Reset DI, Unblocked Money, and the TBM Money Challenge helped her shift out of fear and into magnetic trust, all while allowing her authenticity, sweetness, and feminine power to lead. Know that whatever season you're in, it's not too late to reclaim your worth and manifest the life you were meant to lead. Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 11 July 2025

What does money represent to you? Rent, a good life for your children, stability, freedom, luxury or peace? For most of us, it’s a combination. And all too often, the real urge to manifest money may be hidden behind factors such as ego, fear, and a lack mentality. But to manifest, it is so important to get clear on the “why.” Those of us who just finished our Money Challenge will know this well (it’s still available on demand, get started at tobemagnetic.com). For today’s episode of Expanded, we wanted to resurface one of our most popular episodes of all time for you, one full of timeless advice and resources around manifesting money, whether you’re at the start of your journey or well on your way. Some questions to consider: Why do you want to open income portals? What is the root of that desire to bring in more money? In this episode, we invite you to root down into your authenticity to find that deeper why. You’ll hear Lacy, Jessica, and Grace dive deep into the energetics of abundance, sharing personal stories of financial struggle, limiting beliefs, and the exact tools they used to rewire their relationship with money. You’ll hear how Lacy went from being broke at 30 to running a thriving company and building lasting wealth through strategic investments. Grace opens up about dismantling her financial glass ceiling by letting go of ego-based spending and creating a plan for long-term freedom. Jessica shares a magical manifestation she called in with her partner, reminding us about patience and ultimate trust in the universe, and truly enjoying the gifts we manifest. If you've ever thought, “Will I ever feel financially safe or free?” this episode proves you can. And it’s not about a dollar amount—it’s about unblocking, alignment, trust, and clarity. This conversation is your roadmap to reprogramming your beliefs, finding your authentic money code, and creating a financially magnetic life that’s built to last. Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 3 July 2025

What do control, perfectionism, and money have in common? For many of us, they’re deeply rooted in childhood wounds, and they’re the very blocks standing between us and our manifestations. In this heartfelt Q&A episode, Lacy and Jessica respond to powerful community questions that crack open the real energetics behind love, money, motherhood, and glass ceilings. Whether you’re navigating burnout, trying to call in more income, or craving peace while juggling life’s many demands, this conversation offers guidance, tools, and expansion to help you move forward. You’ll hear personal revelations from Lacy and Jessica about their own inner child programming around control; how it shows up in work, relationships, and even wedding planning. And they offer expansive, grounded advice to two listeners: one manifesting full-time motherhood and another trying to break through a financial glass ceiling while living paycheck to paycheck. This episode is for anyone working through the TBM Money Challenge, or anyone asking: “Why do I still feel stuck?” Because often, the block isn’t what you think—it’s what you’ve normalized. So tune in for deep permission to slow down, reassess, and come back into alignment with what’s truly authentic for you. The abundance you’re calling in might just require a little less effort—and a little more letting go. Stay tuned for Part 2 in a few weeks! Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 27 June 2025

What if your financial story was something you felt empowered and excited by? In this episode, Jessica sits down with Britt Baker, seasoned investor and co-founder of Dow Janes. Britt has a background in consulting and a degree from Harvard Business School, however, it wasn’t until years later, when she saw many of her close friends struggling with their own finances that she realized how many women lacked the financial literacy to build wealth. In this conversation, Britt breaks down the exact steps she teaches to get out of debt, build an emergency fund, invest with confidence (even if you’ve never done it before), and move from financial fear into financial freedom. – basically, everything you wish you learned in school. This is more than a conversation about saving and investing—it’s a holistic look at how healing your relationship with money unlocks manifestation. If you’ve ever felt stuck in survival mode, afraid to look at your bank account, or convinced investing “just isn’t for you,” this episode is for you. Get ready to rewrite your money narrative and step into the identity of someone who is not only financially secure, but magnetic. Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

Transcribed - Published: 20 June 2025