Panoply.

The following podcast contains explicit language.

I'm like in Starbucks in Crown Heights on a computer very like hipster right and so I make a joke about that to him via text because I also want him to

know who I am. So I text him and I said, like, hey, just so you know I'm the girl sitting

on a computer like a hipster.

I mean, like 15 minutes later, he text me to say that he was coming across the street.

But because I was on my computer, you know how you look at your

phone and you see a text, but you like you look up right away because you're not sure like when they

sent it or whatever. And so I look up and there's a guy standing by the door.

And there is her date, her date from Tinder.

I feel like women think a lot about what we put in our profiles, the pictures, because you want them to kind of get a sense of who you are and how you look in this authentic to the person that you are.

And I feel like guys don't do that.

Guys very often is just like, depending on what they're looking for, like maybe they're just

looking for sex and so they'll have like a no shirt on or you know?

Or it's like a bunch of like close-up ones or maybe even sometimes

it's with other girls if you like is that his sister is that his cousin I'm

confused right right or sometimes it's just him and a fish

I get really charmed by him and his niece.

Well, sometimes if they say that's their niece, yes.

But other times this is random child.

I don't know who this person is. Like it's just like is this

your best foot? Like was this your thing? This is the thing that you would like oh this is

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