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Decisions, Decisions

You've Got Decisions: Sacrifices & Compromises

Decisions, Decisions

The Black Effect and iHeartPodcasts

Society & Culture, Comedy, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.57.6K Ratings

🗓️ 11 December 2024

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Summary

Here’s the inaugural episode of “You’ve Got Decisions”, where every Wednesdays we answer your questions & give advice on dating, relationships, and all of YOUR crazy scenarios.This week the ladies get into a long distance relationship struggling to celebrate the holidays.

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0:00.0

If you would like to have us answer your questions, if you have a terrible job, a terrible boyfriend, or a terrible thruffle, guess what?

0:11.2

You've got decisions.

0:13.3

All right.

0:14.0

So this conversation this week is, it just makes sense, especially with the holiday season coming up.

0:20.4

And one of our holiday members, holiday.

0:23.9

It could be a holiday or a holiday.

0:26.8

I'm going holiday because I ain't hoeing right now.

0:29.7

So I'm just saying for the holiday season, whether you are in a relationship, a situation

0:35.7

ship, or it's complicated, there are sacrifices

0:39.3

and compromises that have to happen when you're dealing with somebody. So I'm going to get

0:43.0

straight into the letter and then we're going to break this down and give some advice.

0:47.1

So good morning, beautiful ladies. Apologies in advance for this being so lengthy. I just need

0:53.3

some fight. Oh, girl. It is not even that long. It's not that long. Calm down. I'm bet in knees. I'm bet in knees. I just need some advice on my current situation. I am currently in a long distance relationship. Sometimes we have fights and disagreements, but outside of all of that, things are perfect, except for the distance,

1:11.7

of course. We had a semi-heated argument recently about him not wanting to celebrate holidays

1:18.1

and that he agreed to celebrate some with me, but only because he feels like I forced him to

1:24.3

agree to it. Ouch. The combo got heated because I'm emotional.

1:29.0

And although there are many times I don't even celebrate anything, I still like to do holiday-ish activities, like pumpkin patches, seeing Christmas lights, Halloween parties, etc.

1:40.5

And in our combo, he said he would not do that with me because he just doesn't celebrate holidays.

1:46.9

He chose to end the combo. We set our I love yous and ended the night. The following day, I reached

1:52.9

out first. I almost always reach out first. I asked that we can talk about the combo and he said

1:58.4

there's nothing to talk about. I told him I didn't like

2:01.0

how the combo went, nor do I like that he feels force. I didn't realize how he felt before he

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