You Slept with Him… Now What? Is He Serious or Just Hooking Up? How to Tell What He Really Wants | Stephan Speaks (Fan Fav)

Women of Impact

Impact Theory

Society & Culture, Relationships, Education

4.8 • 701 Ratings

🗓️ 26 October 2025

⏱️ 124 minutes

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This is a fan fav episode. Does hooking up on the first night make a woman confident or does it make her promiscuous? We wish there was a straightforward way to answer this, but the reality is there are too many variables to say. Men may not think about sex on the first date as the worst thing or the only thing they want from you. Stephan Speaks, the relationship guru with 79 million views and several bestsellers, has been bridging the communication gap between men and women looking for healthier relationships, makes it clear that whether you sleep with him on the first date on not, there are some key things you should be doing and paying attention to that will help you decide with confidence. Given the pressure we all face in dating, seeing how men think about sex on that first date can make dating less stressful and more enjoyable. Stephan's biggest recommendations are keeping the first date simple and not being afraid to ask questions. You will never scare off the right person by asking questions, and giving someone the opportunity and permission to reveal their intentions is key to beginning a great relationship. You don’t have to be upset or mad if his intentions aren’t aligned. You can use the opportunity to move on quicker and spare yourself the heartache. Original air date: 11-30-2022 Follow Stephan Speaks: Website: ⁠https://www.stephanspeaks.com/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPBO9gLGy8ujsJ7xjARI7ow⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/StephanSpeaks⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/stephanspeaks/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/StephanSpeaksRelationships/⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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1:00.8	Oh my God. All right, guys, today, one of my favorite guests that I love to sit down and talk to
1:05.5	about relationships is none other than my man, Stefan, speaks. Stefan is just absolutely the no BS tell the truth on how
1:14.7	men think, how men act and how men feel. And what I love about him is that we really do sit down and
1:20.3	have this like completely open, transparent, no judgment, no defenses up discussion about the difference between men and women.
1:30.2	And today, guys, he shares how men think about sex.
1:33.6	And what it actually means if he does or doesn't make a move on the first date.
1:38.5	And the reason why I find this stuff fascinating is because as women, it's so impactful and
1:43.8	empowering to be able to make decisions with your eyes wide open.
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