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🗓️ 16 September 2025
⏱️ 91 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | I'm Nora McInerney and this is thanks for asking a call and show about what matters to you. |
| 0:20.0 | I am recording this from my studio space. If you are watching |
| 0:25.3 | this episode on YouTube, which is something you can do. It's not going to come out the same day as |
| 0:29.9 | the regular podcast. I mean, it's work to edit these videos. Grace does it. She does such a good job. |
| 0:36.2 | If you are watching this on YouTube, you can see. I am in a place I love. I hope I look like I love my life. I do. I am 40-ish. 42 is just simply not an age. I believe that after 30 we should be counting by fives. So I'll be 40 till I'm 45. After 45, I'll be 50. That's just how I'm |
| 0:57.4 | going to do it. But this is not a version of my life that I could really conceive of when I was 25 |
| 1:03.2 | years old. When I was 25 years old, I was so miserable. I was so miserable. I lived in New York City with roommates that I absolutely loved. |
| 1:15.2 | I'd always wanted to live in New York. I did live in New York. I worked at a PR agency with other |
| 1:21.0 | girls that I just loved. I had broken up with a long-term boyfriend. I did that at the Union Square Subway, the sandwich |
| 1:30.7 | shop, not the train station. I was dating, which is a term I would use very loosely for how I |
| 1:38.7 | interacted with other people romantically. I was partying. I lacked the vocabulary to convey to those around me |
| 1:47.8 | that I was also in a constant state of fighter flight. The sound of my Blackberry, which was a digital |
| 1:53.2 | leash that I was so proud to finally get from my work, it would haunt me in my sleep. Often, |
| 2:00.4 | it would go off in my sleep because my work was simply so |
| 2:03.5 | important. I mean, we were launching shampoos people. I was supposed to be working all the time, |
| 2:09.1 | and I was working all the time, or at least it felt like that. Sometimes in my dreams, the little |
| 2:13.6 | Microsoft Outlook email notification would pop up in the lower right hand corner of my dream. |
| 2:22.2 | I did not like my job. |
| 2:25.0 | I hated my job. |
| 2:26.0 | I wasn't good at my job. |
| 2:26.9 | I was supposed to love this job because it was in New York City and it was PR. |
| 2:31.1 | And this was at the same time as working at Teen Vogue on the Hills or |
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