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Okay, well, here's my situation. I started my job at 19, and I invested in the 401K that the company has,

and I married my husband when I was in my late 30s. And now I'm in my early 50s.

My mom wants to downsize, but she, I want to buy her a house so she could free up the equity in her house and be able to retire because she's in her mid-70s.

And my husband, I want to do it to where,

I want to pull it out of my 401K and buy this.

But I also want to not stir up problems with my current husband,

you know, because he's financially selfish.

He likes to spend the money. He doesn't.

I asked if she can move in with us.

He said no.

I said, let's go find another house big enough for all of us.

He said no.

I said, then fine, I'm going to buy a house for her.

He said no.

And I really want to do this for her so she can retire with her.

She could retire.

I don't want her to have to work for the rest of her life.

So I want to know how I can do this.

If I can pull money from my 401K, put it into her trust,

and then buy the house through her trust so it's protected.

Because I would hate for something to happen to me and then him kick her out of a home that I purchased for.

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