You didn't really fall in love with that narcissist
The Mental Healness Podcast
Lee Hammock
4.9 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 17 September 2025
⏱️ 13 minutes
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Summary
You fell in love with their representative. You fell in love with the version that the narcissist showed you in the beginning. Very rarely do narcissists show you who they really are early on because that would mean you SEE them for who they really are.
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| 0:00.0 | You didn't fall in love with that narcissist. You know that right. You absolutely did not fall in love with that person. What you fell in love with was a version of them. Yeah, yeah. What did you think I was going with that? Of course, if you knew here, my name is Lee Hammack. I'm a diagnosed narcissist myself. And welcome to another episode of the Narcissus Code y'all. |
| 0:22.0 | Let's get it. Let's get it. Let's get it. I know what I started the video. Y'all like Lee, where you go with this? Lee, you always, you, I knew you with something. But Lee, I did love them. I know you did. But did you love them? or did you love the version of them that they presented for you? |
| 0:39.7 | Did you love the version of them that they presented for you? |
| 0:39.7 | Did you love the version of them that they showed you at first up front as opposed to this some different version of them that was concocted from the past, right? |
| 0:48.8 | Who did you fall in love with? |
| 0:57.0 | I'll now hand you over to my best man, Eddie. Wow, wow, wow, second time's a charm, eh, Billy Boy? |
| 1:01.0 | Oh God. |
| 1:03.0 | Substitution, courtesy of Paddy Power, embarrassing Eddie, makes way for sensible Samuel. |
| 1:08.0 | Cool, that was close. |
| 1:09.0 | You might not always pick the right starter, but your sub can still deliver. |
| 1:12.2 | Because with Paddy's super sub, your bet rolls over to the player coming on. |
| 1:15.4 | Panny Power. Valid on selected leagues and markets only. Prematch and in-play bets on qualifying player outcome selections only. T's and C exclusions apply. 18 plus, scumeralware.org. If I get my kid a phone, I'll be able to keep in touch with them all the time. |
| 1:25.9 | You'll be on it all the time. |
| 1:27.2 | He could walk to school by himself. |
| 1:28.8 | She could see something she shouldn't. |
| 1:30.2 | He could chat with grandma. |
| 1:31.4 | Friends. get my kid a phone, I'll be able to keep in touch with them all the time. They'll be on it all the time. He could walk to school by himself. She could see something, she shouldn't. He could chat with grandma. Friends, trolls? They can access anything on the internet. They can access anything on the internet. So, should I give my kid a phone? Growing up with phones isn't always easy. Introducing E.E. Safe safer Sims. Sims that help moderate usage and shield |
| 1:45.3 | harmful content on any smartphone. Choose EEC for Sims, only on the UK's best network. To verify best |
| 1:51.1 | network see E.E.com.com. Seriously. Who did you fall in love? Because so many people, the reason I ask |
| 1:56.4 | that question is because you can't see right here and say and I don't and I talk to so many |
| 2:01.3 | people on my Zoom calls right that say hey lady if this person right now that's |
| 2:06.2 | treating me this badly was the person I met in the beginning I wouldn't be here |
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