So look, when you're going to go to it, destination wedding, there's an investment there, a time

investment.

You got money, of course.

So if you're not 100% sure that this couple is really going to last, like the signs are

there even before they walk down that aisle or before you go anywhere, that this couple's

not going to last and you ask yourself, do I really want to spend all this money or not?

Do you go or not?

Good friend of mine is in this exact situation and brought this scenario to me and I thought

it was so interesting and I was wondering if anybody else has ever been here.

So to add the entire context to it, she went to a wedding a few months ago, which is kind

of tying into the wedding that she's about to go to now because that couple is having

like really big issues and she was already kind of tired of going to weddings, which I've

heard a lot of women say she's been in a lot of weddings.

So she's had to show up and do all the things.

So she's just kind of at that point in her life where she's like, already just don't even

want to do weddings anymore.

Yeah, you get to that season of life where it's like everybody around you is engaged

and everybody's getting married and it feels like every, every other month you're attending

a wedding.

That's exactly where she is.

So with this particular wedding, this is, she's, I asked her to give me a tear and she

called it like B tear pretty much.

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