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Thanks, Neff. Subject,

will my man choose me

for the holidays? Dear

Stephen Shirley, I am a 30-year-old beautiful and successful woman,

and I'm in love with a 44-year-old, well-educated hunk that swept me off my feet. When I met him,

he told me that he was seeing someone in a long-distance relationship. But I still started dating this man,

despite the news. After six months of dating, I did some research and found out that he proposed

to this woman, and she has set a wedding date. I never confronted him about it, but it tore me

apart emotionally. I figured if I started an argument about it, I would push him away

and his fiance would win. So I have kept the news to myself. I'm trying my best to make him fall in

love with me and leave her. I know the old saying, if he cheats on her, he'll cheat on you, but I believe

in love and I know we have something special.

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