Why Your Constant Need for Validation Will End Your Relationship | Relationship Theory

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Impact Theory

Society & Culture, Relationships, Education

4.8 • 701 Ratings

🗓️ 15 July 2022

⏱️ 17 minutes

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Summary

Are you struggling with an inner negative voice that tells you, “You’re not good enough,” and makes you feel insecure around your partner? It’s time, here and now, for you to shake off and silence that destructive way of thinking and step into a mindset of growth and positivity so that your relationship thrives in the long-term. On this episode of Relationship Theory, Lisa and Tom Bilyeu sit down to discuss such matters and more as they explore how you can get out of your own head, shake off and silence your inner negative voice, and adopt a growth mindset within your relationship. They discuss why its critical you break any patterns of negative thinking, the importance of being real and openly honest with your partner, how to allow your partner to challenge you in healthy ways, the power of adopting a student mentality, and why loving the process is a non-negotiable when pursuing your passions. SHOW NOTES: Breaking Patterns | Lisa and Tom discuss how to silence your inner negative voice. [0:34] Being Real | Lisa and Tom discuss why you need to encourage honesty. [3:42] Make Each Other Better | Lisa shares her story of overcoming feelings of inferiority. [4:53] Student Mentality | Tom and Lisa discuss how you can learn from your partner. [8:19] Love the Process | Tom and Lisa shares why you need to absolutely love the process. [9:24] FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: http://bit.ly/2s9lU90 YouTube: http://bit.ly/2KWanAC Podcast: https://spoti.fi/2xEloFL FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://bit.ly/2TIsoKh YouTube: https://bit.ly/2IAbTcH Podcast: https://spoti.fi/2IEajGW0 Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be! Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more! Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist. Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab. Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub. And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:51.2	What up guys, Lisa here.
0:53.2	Do you like me have an inner negative voice that tells you all the freaking time that
0:58.4	you're not good enough?
0:59.3	And does that voice that tells you you're not good enough make you feel super freaking
1:03.7	insecure, especially around your partner?
1:07.4	Guys, I'm here to tell you, you are not alone.
1:10.5	Me and Habi, talk very openly about how
1:13.5	our growth mindset allowed us to actually navigate this on how I was able to navigate my
1:19.2	own insecurities within the relationship, how I did the internal work, and how it allowed
1:25.4	us to have a freaking thriving, long-term, loving relationship.
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