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Fuel Your Strength

Why You Should Dump Perfectionism & Embrace Generalism w/ Pat Flynn

Fuel Your Strength

Steph Gaudreau

Fitness, Nutrition, Health & Fitness

4.81.2K Ratings

🗓️ 16 July 2019

⏱️ 58 minutes

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Summary

After striving to become perfect, Pat Flynn realized that it is okay to be average. More than that, he realized the potential of becoming good to great, or at least fairly competent, at many different things could have a positive effect on your life. With his new book, How to be Better at Almost Everything, Pat is taking his principles of Generalism to the masses and is here today to help you apply it to everything in your life to become a more robust human being.

Becoming Better Through Generalism

If you struggle with the idea of not being the best at something, it could be causing major harm to your health and mindset. Pat believes that being a specialist can be a big mistake for most people, and urges us 'normal' humans to accept generalism and all the power that comes with it. 

Pat is an open book and a wealth of knowledge who shares his struggle with anxiety, bullying, and more on this episode. Find out how a background in writing gave him a leg up in the fitness world, why you should be focusing on becoming a short term specialist, and how to become better at multiple areas of your life without feeling too much pressure. 

A generalist mentality can help you improve your everyday life, find more fulfillment in the things you enjoy, and stop the negative self-talk. Your value as a human being is based off who you are, not what you can accomplish, and Pat is here to help you realize that.

Are you ready to stop obsessing over things that really don't matter and embrace generalism into your life? Share what you learned from Pat in the comments on the episode page.

 

On Today's Episode

  • What three basic life skills you should start working on building today
  • How to stack your skills and find value in who you are not what you do
  • The realities of entrepreneurship and facing your fears in the name of freedom
  • Why you should ditch perfectionism to find more progress and liberation
  • How to form a new relationship with anxiety and philosophically rebrand your life

 

Quotes

"In life for most people most of the time, you are probably going to have more competitive and creative advantages getting good to great, or at least fairly competent, at a wide variety of skills rather than trying to be the best in the world at any one." (14:30)

"When I finally started to actually find success in areas, it wasn't because I was trying to be the best at any one thing. But good to great, or fairly competent, at a lot of different things." (34:18)

"Some people are just better than me. That took me a long time to be able to admit." (39:09)

"Humility is an amazing and wonderful thing. Being able to admit you know what, I am not the best at something. And that is okay, and I am still infinitely value and infinitely worth having in existence regardless of any of that." (40:27)

"The day of reckoning is going to come. Be it age or injury or whatever, there is going to be a day when you lose that capacity. So you can either decide to take a deep existential look at that now, and work through that now, which I think can be extremely liberating and freeing." (49:51)

 

Resources Mentioned In This Show

How to Be Better at Almost Everything by Pat Flynn

Chronicles of Strength Website

The Pat Flynn Show

101 Kettlebell Workouts Free PDF

HTK 082: Pat Flynn

Nutritional Therapy Association Website

Order The Core 4 Here

 

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0:00.0

This is Harder to Kill Radio, a weekly podcast where we explore what it takes to build unbreakable humans

0:08.0

through fitness, nutrition, and mindset. I'm your host, Steph Godro. My mission in life is to help women build stronger bodies and resilient

0:18.8

minds so that they begin to embrace and really own their inner power.

0:24.6

The vision I have is that one day,

0:26.9

girls will grow up into strong women who appreciate their bodies,

0:31.1

know their worth, take up space, and live bigger, without the pressure of impossible to fulfill

0:38.1

bullshit societal standards.

0:40.7

That is what it means to be harder to kill.

0:43.0

This podcast is one way to explore these issues,

0:47.0

and you may not always agree with the viewpoints presented here,

0:50.0

but I can guarantee one thing. It will make you think. I'm here to lead a community of women and then we need you two who are ready to define what it is they truly want from their lives on their terms.

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If a particular guest or episode resonates with you, let us know.

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Leave us a review on iTunes Apple Podcasts and hit subscribe on your podcast app.

1:17.0

And also be sure to tune in to my weekly companion show, Fear's Love Friday, every Friday. On that note, let's do this. Hey there. Welcome to episode 221 of Harder to Kill radio.

1:47.0

I'm Steph Godro, your host.

1:50.0

Thanks so much for joining me today on this Tuesday expert guest interview.

1:55.7

I'm really pleased to be welcoming back a friend of mine,

1:59.6

Pat Flynn, who has been on the show before and Pat and I have had the good fortune of

2:07.1

chatting a couple of times in the past he's been on Harder to Kill radio I've been

2:11.6

on his show as well and we just have such a great time

2:15.9

chatting. Every time I talk to Pat we all learned something collectively but I

2:20.5

feel like my life has gotten better and that's the kind of human being that I want to be around.

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