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Finding Joy in Your Home

Why you need to take care of yourself – Hf #317

Finding Joy in Your Home

Jami Balmet

Religion & Spirituality, Homemaking, Living, Kids & Family, Christian, Mother, Healthy, Christianity, Joy, Homemaker, Wife

4.9654 Ratings

🗓️ 30 January 2021

⏱️ 44 minutes

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Summary

Last week we talked about getting to the bottom of WORK, leisure, and what's the point? Today we are looking at the next logical topic: building out your schedule and the importance of taking care of yourself. Listen in here: Listen to the Podcast: And don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast in iTunes. Right click here and save-as to download this episode to your computer. What does it mean to invest in yourself? This is a hot topic right now in Christian circles. Many people proclaim we need to be doing MORE to invest in ourselves and others say that this is an entirely selfish phrase or idea and we need to throw it out. Where do I stand? Right in the middle of this debate.  I think that there is a huge movement in our culture to be selfish. Spend all your time and money on yourself. The good life consists of many shopping days, trips to the spa and making sure YOU are #1 priority in your life...to the exclusion of others. That is a wrong and sinful attitude. So on the flip side, I think Christians often overreact on the other end and we take the idea of denying ourselves so far to the extreme that we no longer have the capacity to serve well because we've neglected ourselves physically, spiritually, and emotionally. Matthew 16:24 - Then Jesus told his disciples, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me." We see that we ARE to live a selfless life. We are to want to become more and more like Christ. We are to deny our own selfish wants and desires and follow HIM! So we shouldn't plunge all of our time, money, and energy into ourselves. We shouldn't be selfish to the detriment of those around us especially. Caring for our health But we should also be concerned about caring for this body and mind that God has given us so that we can serve him with joy and vigor. If we run ourselves into the ground trying to be and do everything, we won't have the energy or creativity to joyfully serve our family and do all that God has called us to in this life with joy. God calls us to be wise with our time. To use it well. To serve him. And I think a very wise use of some of our time, is making sure that we are taking care of ourselves. "Some godly people who exercise regularly and eat well drop dead at every age. And some sedentary overeaters live to be ninety. Our days are set by God, not us. You won’t live a day longer or shorter than God decides. But keep in mind that some people have survived the plunge over Niagara Falls. That doesn’t make it wise." - Physical Exercise by John Piper "Therefore, my beloved brothers, be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, knowing that in the Lord your labor is not in vain." - 1 Corinthians 15:58 John Piper explains why he puts time and energy into jogging: "Underneath most of my besetting sins is despondency. I am less prone to such melancholy when I hammer my body three times a week. The reason could be endorphins. Could be ego. Whichever, it’s cheaper than Prozac or psychotherapy. I’m simply happier. And I sleep better. I have more energy. Most of that energy goes into the Bible and preaching and people. And the fruit from that is, I hope, edification. Which means I exercise to be a more loving person and a better pastor."  Caring for our bodies and our minds is being a WISE steward of what God has given us: "If you ask how the fruit of exercise relates to the fruit of the Spirit, my answer is this: the Holy Spirit produces his fruit both directly and indirectly. He can zap you in your worst moments and make you kind. But he often does it indirectly. For example, if you are impatient when you get little sleep, and if patience is a fruit of the Spirit (which it is, Galatians 5:22), very likely the Holy Spirit will not only remind you of the sufferings of Christ and the glory of God’s promises, but he will also give you the humility to stop being God and go to bed on time.

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0:00.0

This is The Homemaking Foundation's podcast with Jamie Belmay, episode number 317.

0:07.0

Welcome to the Homemaking Foundation's podcast, where we give you the tools, inspiration, and

0:12.4

encouragement you need to craft a gospel-centered home. And now your host from youngwifesguide.com,

0:18.5

Jamie Belmay. Hey, Jamie Bell May.

0:27.2

Hey, ladies, welcome back to my podcast. Today is a really great episode. We're talking about investing in yourself and taking care of yourself as a woman. We're going to be

0:31.9

talking about, you know, spiritually, mentally, emotionally, the importance of that and how do we view

0:36.9

that as women of faith, as Christian

0:40.1

women? How do we look at that? Is it selfish to work on ourselves or is it something we need to do?

0:45.7

And that's what we're going to approach today in this episode. This is always a popular topic when I

0:50.4

talk about it. And this was not actually originally the episode I was going to publish

0:55.6

today. But in the last episode, we were talking about the meaning of work. And that was an episode

1:03.2

that we took from the 2021 Homemaking Ministries Online Conference. That was one of my sessions

1:09.0

that I did for that conference. And it was wildly

1:12.7

popular this past week when we published it. It just resonated with so many of you. And so this

1:18.3

talk today was the direct follow-up. So I did a two-part talk on work. And then this was the second

1:25.1

part of how do we then invest in ourselves.

1:28.2

And I think when we take those two topics together, we can then start looking at building

1:33.1

out routines and schedules because we know where we should be spending our time.

1:39.1

It can be the helpful launching off point.

1:41.4

So because that was so popular, I decided to do this episode as well

1:45.4

because I just feel like it's part of that same discussion. So this is another conference session

1:49.9

from this year's conference. There are 40 conference sessions total. So you guys, those of you on the

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