Why YOU DON'T need an apology from a narcissist in order to move forward
The Narcissists' Code
Lee Hammock
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🗓️ 5 September 2024
⏱️ 12 minutes
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Summary
Why YOU DON'T need an apology from a narcissist in order to move forward. SO many people think that they need an apology from their narcissistic ex or parent in order to move forward. IN this video I make the case as to WHY you don't need one.
What's going on beautiful people, if the is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims get validation and the Narcissists get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone
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| 0:00.0 | What is going on, beautiful people? Today, we're going to be talking about why you do not need an apology from a narcissist. You want one, but you do not need one. |
| 0:11.7 | If you're new here, my name is is Lee Hammack I'm a self-aware |
| 0:14.0 | narcissist and welcome to another episode of the narciss code. So boom, welcome back, welcome back, welcome back, |
| 0:35.0 | welcome back, folks. Yes, yes, yes. |
| 0:37.0 | Yeah, this is not meant to be a touchy subject right here, |
| 0:41.0 | y'all, but I know it's going to touch a lot of people and I don't want to touch you I don't want to touch you in the wrong way so to speak. |
| 0:47.1 | This question was I mean this kind of this video idea was inspired from someone in my support group called the mental |
| 0:53.0 | healers you can find that in mental illness dot net scroll down and she was |
| 0:58.5 | saying that she needed an apology she's like why I feel like I need an apology |
| 1:01.8 | I want this person to apologize I'm just |
| 1:04.0 | venting but I want them to apologize and I'm always going to respond with this right here |
| 1:07.6 | y'all you don't need them to apologize narcissists want to be needed right I told |
| 1:12.4 | I said this before over and over again narcissists want to be needed, right? I told you, I say this before over and over again. |
| 1:13.8 | Narcissists want to be needed. At our core, we want to be needed for something. |
| 1:21.4 | We absolutely do. We want you to need us for something. So if you need us to |
| 1:25.0 | if you need us to apologize, that's a victory for us, right? |
| 1:29.0 | If you need us to apologize to you, that's a victory for us and that allows us to still have some type of power and control over you right so that's why I tell people you do you know you want one of course you want an apology for people that have done you wrong. |
| 1:43.0 | You're like, I want this person to apologize. |
| 1:45.0 | But as long as you are needing it and using the word need, |
| 1:48.0 | it's going to kind of keep you stuck in this |
| 1:55.0 | space right here with this toxic narcissistic person. It's going to kind of keep you entrapped here in this relationship space with this toxic narcissistic person. |
| 1:59.0 | This is just the way it goes. This is one of the things that continuously happens to people in these |
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