Why We Fake Orgasms and How to Stop feat. Sex Therapist Vanessa Marin

Girls Gotta Eat

Ashley Hesseltine

Relationships, Society & Culture, Dating, Comedy, Sex, 977170

4.6 • 29.2K Ratings

🗓️ 4 December 2023

⏱️ 111 minutes

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Summary

We are SO excited (or rather, aroused) to do this episode about faking orgasms! We brought in sex therapist and bestselling author Vanessa Marin to chat about how many women are faking orgasms, why we do it, how to stop doing it, and how to talk to your partner if you’ve been faking for a while (or forever!). We also break down how to end the sexual experience when you don’t know how, reframing “good sex” even when there isn’t a climax, and how to mix up the order you do things in the bedroom so everyone gets off. And we even touch on men having difficulty reaching orgasm. Before Vanessa joins us, we’re catching up on Ashley meeting her boyfriend’s parents, Rayna’s awkward vibrator moment with her family, and we have a very special (official) debut from TESSA! We’re also introducing new Vibes Only products – handcuffs anyone? Enjoy!

Follow Vanessa on Instagram at @vanessaandxander, get her book Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life, listen to her podcast Pillow Talks, and visit vmtherapy.com for more.

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Transcript

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0:00.0	What do I do? I'm married to this person now and he thinks this is how my body works and this is what I like and how am I supposed to
0:06.8	Rewind 20 years to that experience and say like I change my mind. Psych! Hi guys.
0:25.0	Welcome back to another episode of girls gotta eat.
0:30.0	Welcome back to another episode of girls gotta eat. Welcome back.
0:31.0	Rina, you have been a naughty girl.
0:34.0	You have me baby.
0:35.0	This is so funny.
0:37.0	We just have our handcuffs sitting in between us.
0:39.0	It's cute.
0:40.0	You want to handcuff them together.
0:41.0	Yeah.
0:42.0	We must be linked together forever. Look at your purple Nails Day match.
0:44.5	We have to be like this whole episode now.
0:46.2	This is cute.
0:47.1	If you're not watching on YouTube you should be,
0:49.3	but Rain and I are gonna be cuffed up
0:50.9	this whole episode.
0:52.8	This is going to be, can we do it?
0:54.7	Oh there we can do it.
0:55.3	This is so weird for me.
0:57.4	I don't mind it.
0:58.2	You don't like, but then I get going too much with my hands.
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