Why She Reaches Out But Won’t Set Dates With You
Coach Corey Wayne
Coach Corey Wayne
4.6 • 532 Ratings
🗓️ 26 April 2026
⏱️ 14 minutes
🧾️ Download transcript
Summary
Join this channel to get access to exclusive members only videos:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQTAVxA4dNBCoPdHhX9nnoQ/joinJoin Members Only On My Website. 7 day free trial. Save 25% when you choose an annual Membership plan. Cancel anytime:https://understandingrelationships.com/plansJoin Members Only on Spotify:https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/coachcoreywayne/subscribeWhy a woman reaches out but won’t set dates with you.In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who met a girl online. He decided to try to get to know her through chatting on the dating app instead of the method I teach in 3% Man. Now he’s paying the price for not following the book. She often messages him and seems to care about what he’s doing, but she won’t make any dates and won’t give out her phone number. He wonders what’s going on.If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B01EIA86VC/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-057626&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_057626_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:http://amzn.to/1XKRtxdHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/how-to-be-3-man-winning-heart/id948035350?mt=11&uo=6&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/how-to-be-a-3-man-unabridged/id1106013146?at=1l3vuUo&mt=3You can get my second book, “Mastering Yourself, How To Align Your Life With Your True Calling & Reach Your Full Potential” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B07B3LCDKK/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-109399&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_109399_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/2TQV2XoHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353139487?mt=11&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353594955?mt=3&at=1l3vuUoYou can get my third book, “Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B0941XDDCJ/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-256995&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_256995_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/33K8VwFHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://books.apple.com/us/book/quotes-ruminations-contemplations/id1563102111?itsct=books_box_link&itscg=30200&ct=books_quotes%2C_ruminations_%26_contemplatio&ls=1
Transcript
Click on a timestamp to play from that location
| 0:00.0 | Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne, and this is my video coaching newsletter. |
| 0:05.0 | And the topic of today's newsletter is going to be why she reaches out but won't set dates with you. |
| 0:11.6 | So this particular email is from a viewer. He met a girl online and he decided to do the opposite with 3% man teaches. |
| 0:20.4 | He thought, you know, I'm going to try to get to know her through chatting on the dating app |
| 0:24.9 | instead of what Corey teaches in his book because I think you need to get to know a woman first |
| 0:29.8 | before you ask for the number and you meet up and all that. |
| 0:33.5 | And so for, I don't know how long, he's been chit-chatting with this girl. |
| 0:38.0 | And now she will not give him her actual phone number and she won't set any dates. |
| 0:46.5 | And yet he's like, well, she always reaches out and seems to care about me. |
| 0:50.7 | But she won't set dates. |
| 0:52.5 | And again, this is why I say, |
| 0:54.9 | I've been teaching this man for over 20 years, |
| 0:57.8 | and this stuff has been perfected over the past, |
| 1:02.1 | almost 30 years that I've been doing this personally, |
| 1:05.7 | and obviously teaching it to literally millions of people |
| 1:09.1 | all over the world in every spiritual and cultural background. |
| 1:14.6 | And it's just constantly refined, constantly perfected, and the same things. I mean, 100 years from |
| 1:20.1 | now, this stuff will work because it's basic human behavior that is innate to men and women. |
| 1:27.1 | And if you want to go against it, then, I mean, |
| 1:29.6 | the book is designed, 3% man is designed to keep you from wasting your time because there are |
| 1:34.2 | women. Doc Love would have called them professional daters. And you also have a lot of women that, |
| 1:40.3 | quite frankly, just go online for attention and validation validation but they're not really looking to |
... |
Please login to see the full transcript.
Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Coach Corey Wayne, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.
Generated transcripts are the property of Coach Corey Wayne and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.
Copyright © Tapesearch 2026.

