Why People Who Have Every Reason To Be Happy Are Often Miserable
Coach Corey Wayne
Coach Corey Wayne
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🗓️ 31 July 2024
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| 0:00.0 | Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne and this is my video coaching newsletter and the topic of today's |
| 0:06.0 | newsletter is going to be why people who have every reason to be happy are often miserable. |
| 0:15.1 | Well, this particular emails from a guy who's got every reason to be happy. He loves what he does. |
| 0:20.7 | He's a video game designer. |
| 0:24.1 | He says he absolutely loves his work. |
| 0:27.0 | And he's also written a couple of books for like one of the largest IT book publishers in the world. |
| 0:35.0 | You're probably thinking, who wants to read a book on IT? |
| 0:40.1 | But it's a thing. And so he's very successful at it. However, he's got a personal story that he tells himself. And so despite the |
| 0:48.6 | fact he has all the success, he has a ton of reasons to be happy and grateful for where he's at in life he often feels guilty |
| 0:58.5 | and that he's not completely in his masculine because he designs video games and he thinks |
| 1:04.5 | because again his personal story well this is kind of a waste of time what are women going to think |
| 1:09.3 | of this and it's interesting because i have people that I've coached over the years that their original goal was to get into the game designing business, which they later did, and are very happy and very successful that they're doing it. |
| 1:25.9 | And so this guy's in the same place. He absolutely loves his work, |
| 1:29.1 | but his internal story that he tells himself about his life, the tape that's playing in his head |
| 1:35.7 | all the time, is very negative, very disempowering. And so one of the things that I learned, |
| 1:43.1 | and I also wrote about this in mastering yourself |
| 1:45.7 | when I was at Tony Robbins' Date with Destiny's seminar many 20-something years ago at this point |
| 1:53.4 | is that he takes you through a process because all of us have a primary question, that everything |
| 1:59.3 | that's going on in our lives, we're always asking ourselves this question and for most people it's a very negative |
| 2:06.4 | disempowering question and the one thing that at when i when tony took us through this process |
| 2:13.2 | that i discovered about myself was the question that i always asked if, say, I started dating a |
| 2:20.5 | girl and knocked my socks off, or I got to drive an exotic luxury car that I always wanted. |
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