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Why People Don’t Like You? #1 Dating Coach - Blueprint for Modern Relationships

BigDeal

Codie Sanchez

Business, Investing, Entrepreneurship, Marketing

4.8681 Ratings

🗓️ 29 May 2025

⏱️ 76 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, Codie and Matthew unpack the messy world of modern love. They explore how politics, emotional intelligence, and personal ambition shape relationships today. From navigating heartbreak to using AI for dating advice, this conversation digs into what it really takes to find and keep a meaningful connection. Follow Matthew on Instagram @thematthewhussey To get help scaling your business to the next level, you can reach out to my team right here: ⁠https://contrarianthinking.typeform.com/boardroom-mc⁠ If you are ready to buy a business, get on a call with my team to learn how we can support you: https://contrarianthinking.biz/community-bigdeal Chapters 00:00 The Challenge of Finding Love 01:31 The Current Dating Landscape 04:49 Political Views and Relationships 09:59 The Importance of Curiosity in Relationships 14:00 Staying Married Happily 19:50 Emotional Buttons in Relationships 30:03 Navigating Support in Relationships 36:39 Navigating Personal Dreams and Relationships 38:12 Honesty in Dating: Avoiding Settling 40:30 Understanding Heartbreak: Acute vs. Chronic 43:28 The Importance of Choosing the Right Partner 47:48 Intelligence and Relationships: A Double-Edged Sword 51:12 Understanding Gender Dynamics in Relationships 54:22 Overcoming Personal Walls in Relationships 01:01:25 The Role of AI in Modern Dating 01:12:43 The Future of Love and AI MORE FROM BIGDEAL: 🎥 Youtube: / @podcastbigdeal 📸 Instagram: / bigdeal.podcast 📽️ TikTok: / big.deal.pod MORE FROM CODIE SANCHEZ: 🎥 Youtube: / @codiesanchezct 📸 Instagram: / codiesanchez 📽️ TikTok: / realcodiesanchez OTHER THINGS WE DO: Our community: https://contrarianthinking.typeform.com/to/WBztXXID Free newsletter: https://contrarianthinking.biz/3XWLlZp Biz buying course: https://contrarianthinking.biz/3NhjGgN Resibrands: https://resibrands.com/ CT Capital: https://contrarianthinking.biz/4eRyGOk Main St Hold Co: https://contrarianthinking.biz/3YfGa8u Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Finding love is hard. There is nothing easy about finding the person you're going to share a room with for the rest of your life.

0:08.0

The most important deal you'll ever do is the partner you choose. Marriage done well is a superpower. That's why today I bring you Matthew Hussey.

0:15.9

Arguably the world's foremost dating coach. There's an arrogance among a lot of entrepreneurs that they think,

0:23.4

if you're not on board and you don't support me, and it's like, no, being with an entrepreneur

0:27.2

is a nightmare. Do you have frameworks or tactics you use? I have these things I call emotional

0:32.3

buttons. When we feel an emotion and it's a good emotion and we want to feel it again, it's

0:37.2

really, really important to

0:38.6

If you're young and you're having a hard time finding somebody does it help if you're like maybe I should try dating across the aisle?

0:45.9

Ask yourself what was missing last time around that because that thing was missing I was miserable.

0:53.4

You have to have a strong enough reason to believe that the game is worth it.

1:00.6

For the last 20 years, he's advised everyone from regular folks to royalty, literally.

1:06.8

And his clients include people like Eva Logoria and Tyra Banks.

1:10.9

He's written bestsellers, gone viral on every platform you can name, and also built one of the most loyal female audiences on the internet, helping people find maybe the most important thing in the world, love and keeping it.

1:22.9

So without further ado, let's bring on Matthew Hussey to talk about how do we find love, how do we keep

1:28.2

it, how do we date, and how do we not just get married, but stay married happily. So for my

1:32.9

single friends, I keep hearing that it's harder than ever out there, that they can't find

1:38.0

someone, even if they were married before, they're divorced, they're trying to figure it out.

1:42.5

You've been doing this for 18 years,

1:45.0

talking to people about dating and psychology and marriage and partnership. Is it harder now

1:50.3

today than any other time? And what's different now? I think in some ways it is harder now.

1:59.9

I think there's, you know, there's more and more news stories now

2:05.2

about what's happening for men and women. Not that I want to plunge head first into those

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