Why Narcissists Keep Your Things When The Relationship Ends
The Mental Healness Podcast
Lee Hammock
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🗓️ 5 November 2025
⏱️ 15 minutes
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Why Do some Narcissists insist on Keeping Your Things When The Relationship Ends.
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| 0:00.0 | Why are there so many narcissists and toxic people that are insistent on keeping your things? Why don't they just give you your stuff back when the relationship ends? After they've treated you horribly, done something terrible to you, lied to you, cheated on you, put their hands on you, put their feet on you. Why can't they just give up your stuff and just move on? Why is that? |
| 0:21.4 | That's what we're talking about today y'all. |
| 0:22.9 | Of course, if you're here, I'm Lee Hammack. |
| 0:24.6 | I'm a diagnosed narcissist and welcome to another episode of the Narcissus Code. |
| 0:28.0 | Let's get it. Welcome back, folks, welcome back, welcome back. |
| 0:48.0 | Yes, the narcissist, the noisicist and keeping your things. |
| 0:55.0 | Now, I'll do a separate video on why sometimes, |
| 0:58.0 | like the narcissist refuses to come get their things. |
| 1:01.0 | But this right here, we're gonna be focusing |
| 1:03.0 | on the topic of keeping your things. |
| 1:05.0 | And also, my one-on-ones, my coaching, my courses, |
| 1:08.0 | everything is available at MentalHealness.net. |
| 1:10.0 | Make sure you check that out |
| 1:11.5 | um and yes let's hop right into it y'all narcissists love keeping your stuff now not every |
| 1:18.1 | narcissist will keep your stuff some of them will absolutely give you your stuff back or trash it |
| 1:22.3 | burn it uh put a with put a demonic curse on it hex it whatever right some of them would do |
| 1:27.3 | whatever they need to do. |
| 1:28.4 | But a lot of times, they'll keep your stuff. |
| 1:30.2 | Okay, lady you said that, you're repeating yourself. |
| 1:32.5 | Tell us why. |
| 1:33.8 | Okay, I can give you a few different reasons as to why. |
| 1:37.0 | One reason that narcissists keep your stuff is so they keep having a reason to reach out to you. |
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