"Why Men Go COLD After Sex!" The 7 Hidden Tests He Uses To Decide If You’re Worth It PT2

Women of Impact

Impact Theory

Society & Culture, Relationships, Education

4.8 • 701 Ratings

🗓️ 19 March 2026

⏱️ 48 minutes

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Ever feel like sex, love, and relationship “hacks” just leave you more anxious... or more alone? In part 2, Adam Lane Smith pulls ZERO punches about why most women are miserable after sex, the hidden psychology of male bonding, and how real self-worth finally gets men showing up and fighting for your relationship. You’ll discover the harsh truths about long-term love, the surprising body/hormone science behind monogamy, and the “3-minute conversation” that prevents months of resentment and heartbreak. SHOWNOTES: How To Tell If You’re With a Manipulator or a Wounded Man 5 Intimacy Mistakes Women Make (and the Fixes That Work) Orgasm, Vasopressin & Getting Him “Hooked” on You The HARSH Truths About Love That No One Tells You Masculinity, Femininity & Reclaiming Sovereignty When Love Misses the Big Moments (But Delivers in Small Ones) The 3-Minute Conversation That Can Heal or End a Relationship How To Find More From Adam + Final Thoughts Thank you to our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com Follow Adam Lane Smith: Website: https://www.adamlanesmith.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@AttachmentAdam Free attachment styles assessment, free newsletter, coaching, and live retreats available on his website! FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:32.9	Welcome back to Women of Impact. If part one had your head freaking spinning, then part two is where you
0:37.6	stop blaming yourself and actually flip the script.
0:40.6	Now, we cracked open the post-intimacy cascade, the avoidance shutdown and why performing,
0:46.5	chasing or tolerating, just freaking tears you down.
0:49.0	But now it's time to get tactical, draw the line in the sand and become the woman who, yes,
0:54.1	hold your standards
0:55.4	with zero apology and no self-abandonment.
0:58.7	And here's how you do it, because coming up, we talk about the word-for-word script
1:02.6	for when he tests you, so you stop guessing, you get super clear and you send a message
1:07.7	that he'll never forget.
1:09.8	Then we go over how to stop being the emotional plant that's actually dying for validation
1:14.6	and how to actually get what you need without feeling desperate or needy, but allowing yourself
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