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thank you nephew's subject why is he in my brother's house dear stephen shirley i'm writing

for my brother because he is too upset to do it for himself.

My brother is 38 and his wife is 35 and she has planned a trip for Labor Day with two girlfriends

and a guy that has been her friend since they were 18 years old. This guy was married before

and he has one child. Now he's no longer dating women. He told my brother that he is a great new man in his life, but he keeps him away from his friends because it is not serious yet. My brother told this guy it's imperative that he meet the boyfriend and here's why. My sister-in-law is always with this guy and my

brother thinks she's cheating on him right in his face now the guy is going on vacation with his

wife so my brother got really skeptical but that's not the biggest issue we need to know how far

another man is allowed up in another man's house.

Last week, my brother came home and this man was sitting in a shirt and shorts on the patio.

His wife was sleeping on the couch.

The guy said they had gone running in the neighborhood and he jumped in the shower while she took a nap.

The biggest issue is that he took the shower while she took a nap.

The biggest issue is that he took a shower in my brother's bathroom.

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