Why friends with benefits doesn't work
The Narcissists' Code
Lee Hammock
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🗓️ 11 July 2024
⏱️ 12 minutes
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Summary
What’s it like being Friends with benefits (FWB) with a narcissist or toxic person? From the perspective of a diagnosed narcissist I highly recommend NOT being in #situationships with narcissistic people. It does not work, it typically only benefits the narcissist and will end up in you wasting a TON of time being with this person.
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| 0:00.0 | What is going on beautiful people? Today we're talking about friends with benefits with a narcissist or toxic person |
| 0:08.3 | If you knew here my name is Lee Hamick. I'm a clinically diagnosed narcissist and welcome to another episode of the narcissist code. So welcome back. Welcome back. Folks, yes, yes, friends with benefits with their narcissistic person. What's it like being friends with benefits with their narciss? Like so if you're, uh, let me say, how do I say this and be nice? If you don't know what friends with benefits is, |
| 0:47.8 | it is when you are clapping cheeks with no strings attached when you are having physical intimacy, bedroom |
| 0:56.7 | play without the relationship dynamic, right? |
| 0:59.8 | You're just friends with the benefit of bumping uglies, how the folks used to say back in a day. |
| 1:07.5 | This happens all the time, y'all. |
| 1:09.1 | This is something that consistently, continuously happens to a lot of people in this space like you |
| 1:13.7 | become friends with a toxic narcissistic person. |
| 1:16.8 | Like so many people do this so many people fall into this dynamic. Like either you start off in this |
| 1:25.1 | situation ship either like the relationship starts off this way where like there's |
| 1:29.5 | no there's never ever a label given to the relationship right here. You're doing everything but |
| 1:36.8 | Actually in a relationship like you're sleeping together you're doing everything together but you're not actually technically in the relationship in a narcissist |
| 1:43.5 | types of person whoever never officially just says oh we're together |
| 1:48.0 | but they treat you like you're together you know friends with benefits like you don't |
| 1:51.7 | like you're not in you're not in technically |
| 1:54.3 | in a relationship right this only this really typically out only benefits the |
| 2:01.6 | narcissist right it really does like they get it like because if you're |
| 2:05.9 | friends with benefits with their narciss like I said like I said you could possibly be doing |
| 2:10.6 | everything you you look like you in a relationship but you don't actually ever get the be doing |
| 2:13.2 | everything, you look like you're in a relationship, but you don't actually ever get to |
| 2:15.0 | officially get that label. |
| 2:16.4 | You're just, oh, we're just friends. |
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