So a while back we had someone pretty close to us ask us truly like what's the point of marriage and it came from a flustered tone of my marriage kind of it's not great. We're barely hanging on by a thread. We basically haven't divorced is what it kind of

roommates even sleeping in different beds in different bedrooms like all of that and and

this wife asked me she's like what's the point of marriage like

truly what's the point like she was having a very vulnerable moment with with me

and I was just like yada yada yada yada here's all the things and I was trying to not you

know overwhelm of course but I wanted to encourage she's a Christian too and she's a

Christian and she's very involved in evangelical like ministries that are reaching out to people that, you know, are on the fringe and so I just was like as much as I wanted to share I mean what would you say to somebody like that?

Like why should or a single person it kind of breaks down into two questions like

what's the point of marriage and if you're married and you're in this like muddy

marriage that things are not going well.

What do you say to that person?

Or if you're saying...

Yeah, but if you're a single person and they're asking like, why should I get married?

What's the point?

Yeah, these are, I I think valuable things to consider and chances are just like you've had a friend who you've had to have that conversation with

Chances are the listeners as well have maybe considered why why are they fighting for or they have

friends that they're having to give counsel to or kind of help process through that stuff

so we're gonna actually talk about this topic what is for? Like why, what are we fighting for?

Yeah, what's the point of marriage? Yeah. We'll do that on the other side. Before dive into that, Selena, how are you doing today?

No, I just ask you how are you doing today?

Because you always ask me, so. I'm not going to answer I'm deferring to you.

How are you?

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