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Sex With Emily

Why Don’t I Ever Want Sex?

Sex With Emily

Sex With Emily

Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.36.8K Ratings

🗓️ 14 February 2023

⏱️ 37 minutes

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Summary

Here’s the truth about getting turned on. It’s a thousand times easier to feel sexual with others, if you’re already in the habit of getting sexual with yourself. But what does that look like? On today’s show, I’m talking sexy self-care practices that I recommend to everyone of every age, every gender, every relationship status. We’ll go over sensory engagement, breath work and solo sex techniques and toys, so you can keep your pilot light lit and feel erotic all the time. Plus, I take your questions: the difference between internal and external orgasms, arousal ideas for vulva-owners, how to approach sex with a new partner when you’ve been out of the game for a while, and much more. Show Notes: Sexy Positions to Try This Valentine’s Day 5 Last-Minute, Ultra-Sexy Valentine’s Ideas PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure HigherDOSE Sauna Blanket Breathing App: Apple | Google Play Je Joue: Vita | Amour | Duet (code SEXWITHEMILY for 20% OFF) When it’s Time to Unplug, Plug in a Magic Wand Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout) Bellesa TryQuinn XConfessions.com &Jane This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/sexwithemily and get 10% off your first month. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Do you know that only 20% of women have orgasms during penetration?

0:06.8

Without clitoral stimulation?

0:07.8

Oh, so I feel lucky.

0:09.8

Yeah, you're really lucky, Pat.

0:11.6

Like literally whenever you're feeling down and you're having a rough day, it's be like,

0:14.9

I can orgasm during intercourse.

0:19.1

You're listening to Sex with Emily.

0:20.7

I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate the conversation

0:25.5

around sex.

0:26.5

So here's the truth about getting turned on.

0:28.7

It's at 1000 times easier to feel sexual with others if you're already in the habit of

0:32.8

getting sexual with yourself.

0:34.4

But what does that look like?

0:35.5

Well, in today's show, I'm talking sexy self-care practices that I recommend to everyone

0:40.2

of every age, every gender, every relationship status.

0:44.2

We'll go over sensory engagement, breath work, and solo sex techniques and toys so you

0:49.4

could keep your pilot light lit and feel erotic all the time.

0:53.3

Well, or most of the time.

0:54.8

Or more than you are right now.

0:55.9

Plus I take your questions, the difference between internal and external orgasms, arousal

1:00.5

ideas for love owners, how to approach sex with a new partner when you've been out of

1:04.3

the game for a while and much more.

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