Why does it get worse when you go back to a narcissist?
The Narcissists' Code
Lee Hammock
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🗓️ 2 July 2024
⏱️ 14 minutes
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Summary
What's going on inside the mind of a narcissist when you take them back? Why does the relationship get worse each time you go back into a toxic relationship that you know you shouldn't be in? Why do narcissist feel like it's ok to treat you any kind of way when you take them back. Find out all that and MORE in today's episode.
Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
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| 0:00.0 | What is going on beautiful people today? We're going to be talking about why it gets worse |
| 0:06.1 | when you go back into a toxic narcissist relationship. If you're new here, my name is Lee Hammock, |
| 0:10.7 | I'm a clinically diagnosed narcissist. And welcome to another episode of the narcissist. Welcome back folks. Yes, yes, yes. So I love I just love the intro |
| 0:36.6 | and intro music. I hope y'all do. So why does it get worse when you go back into a |
| 0:42.1 | toxic narcissistic relationship. |
| 0:44.0 | Y'all, this is one of the main questions that I get. |
| 0:46.6 | And this is me being real, let's say, y'all know I keep it hot and ready like a little |
| 0:50.1 | seasoned pizza. |
| 0:51.8 | This is one of the main questions I get and for good |
| 0:53.8 | reason. A lot of people want to know just like Lee why can't they just treat me |
| 0:57.4 | better? Why do they have to act like this when all I'm trying to do is love |
| 1:00.9 | them when all I try to do is take them back why why why does it get worse so I'm going to tell you |
| 1:06.1 | you get directly from the horse's mouth right here so to speak on why it gets worse but |
| 1:11.0 | before we hop deep into the episode, y'all |
| 1:12.8 | make sure you check out my support groups and my courses right now, scroll across the bottom |
| 1:16.8 | and screen, courses that mental illness net have a growing support group, a growing |
| 1:20.6 | community of people who are willing to help each other and I'm part of it. |
| 1:23.7 | Y'all know I'm in there every single day chatting with people, helping people. |
| 1:27.6 | We have weekly Zoom meetings and everything like that so check it out right here. |
| 1:30.0 | But yes, I tell this to people all the time that when you go back to a narcissist |
| 1:35.6 | they absolutely think that you are okay with the behaviors. They think that you are fine with how they are treating you or how they've treated you previously. |
| 1:48.0 | They think that you are signing up for more toxic abusive behaviors. |
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