As much as we all strive to be relationship goals, there is not one relationship out there that

doesn't come with its personal struggles. You're listening to Unsweet and Unfilter the podcast,

episode 37 of Season 2. In today's episode, I sit down with Zahra Jabri to discuss the topic

of marrying our unfinished business, how to overcome the

pain points of our current relationship, and how to deal with insecurities from our past.

You know, I was never a fan of the quote, two people have to fall apart to realize how much

they need to fall back together. Why is it that relationships have to reach this point where

it seems like a solution isn't at an arm's length? Is it because our hearts are laced with pride

and ego? Or are we entering one of the most challenging chapters of our lives, the chapter

of marriage, without

the proper guidance. We tend to forget that in a relationship, it isn't you versus me. It should be

you and me versus the problem, right? But why do we often whisper, I love you's? And in contrast,

we have no issues screaming out the harshest of words to our significant other. Relationships don't last because of the

good times. They last when you handle the issues with compassion and kindness. So where do we go from here?

In this episode with Zahra, we break it down when it comes to dealing with past issues manifesting

themselves in our current relationship. We also discuss how to deal with our partners and

securities, especially when they

feel entitled to our social media passwords, for example. And how do we have brutally honest

conversations with our significant other in regards to what we may each be lacking? I hope this

episode provides some form of clarity for you regardless if you're single, engaged, or have

been married for 10 plus years. Every relationship comes with its struggles, so why not obtain the necessary tools to overcome

them?

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