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Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Why Do We Have Fetishes? (2018 Rerun)

Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Kirk Honda

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.61.2K Ratings

🗓️ 7 August 2022

⏱️ 88 minutes

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Dr. Kirk Honda talks with Yuval Laor about why we evolved to have sexual fetishes.

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August 17, 2018
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0:00.0

Hey, dessert listeners, we've had podcast episodes before in which we talked about parapherias

0:12.6

in which people exhibit preference or compulsions for sadomasochism or voyeurism or exhibitionism,

0:24.9

other kinds of, and then it can get a little darker like wanting to actually harm other people

0:31.0

while having sex. And we talked about them in detail, but what we didn't get to is perhaps

0:39.3

why we evolved these things. Because, you know, it's hard to nail that down, but I thought

0:46.4

we would have you vault lower on the podcast and see is an expert on these sorts of things.

0:52.4

Welcome to the podcast, you've all. Thank you for having me. This is the psychology and

0:56.3

shadow podcast. I'm your host, Dr. Kirk Honda. I'm a therapist and a professor. You've all,

1:02.1

uh, can you introduce yourself, please? Uh, yes, I'm Yuvalo. I live in Colorado and Boulder,

1:07.8

and, uh, I have a PhD in culture studies, uh, which I wrote about the evolution of the capacity

1:14.2

for further and, uh, all and religious conversion. And right now, I'm turning that into a book, so.

1:20.5

What will the book be called? Well, the, the current title is either the infatuated primate or

1:26.3

the eye inspired primate. So the episode today, um, it's about the sexual perverted primate. So,

1:34.8

help us understand that. Uh, well, so, uh, we need to situate that within, um, uh, context. So,

1:43.0

let me start by, uh, uh, introducing, uh, uh, a thing called sexual imprinting, which is

1:49.0

in, in animals. Primarily, we see it in birds, but it probably exists in, in many other,

1:54.6

in many mammals as well. And sexual imprinting, like other types of imprinting means that there

2:01.6

is a sensitive period in development when the bird will, uh, uh, decide or, you know, it's not

2:10.6

that it's conscious, but the bird will determine who it is that she wants or he wants to have sex with.

2:17.6

Yeah. It's similar to the more well-known phenomenon of some birds imprinting on who is their

2:25.4

mother that they're going to follow around. So yeah, I think most people know that if you are there

2:32.6

at a particular time for a young bird and you're giving food and you're giving warmth and attention,

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