Why Do Narcissists Like To Record You At Your Worst Moments?
The Mental Healness Podcast
Lee Hammock
4.9 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 5 November 2025
⏱️ 15 minutes
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Why Do Narcissists Like To Record You At Your Worst Moments? Why do they pull their phones out when you are reacting to something that they did and then they play the victim?
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| 0:31.5 | narcissists and other toxic people now not just narcissists and other toxic people why do they |
| 0:37.2 | love to record you |
| 0:38.5 | at your worst moments like when things are not going well in your life or when you finally snap |
| 0:45.5 | to something that they have done like you just caught them lying look they just smacks you and you're |
| 0:51.4 | hey they hit you and you put your fist up and then you're running at them they pull their their phone out and record you. Why do they do that type of stuff? Why do they pull their phone out when you're at your worst moment, y'all? That's what we're talking about today, y'all. And of course, if you're new here, my name is Lee Hammack. I'm a diagnosed narcissism myself and welcome to another episode of the Narcissus Code. Let's get it. Welcome back, folks. Welcome back, Welcome back. Welcome back. Yes. Narcissists and those pesky damn cameras. Why do they whip them out so ferociously like a sword? They whip their phone all like a sword and record you at your worst moments. Why the hell do they do that? |
| 1:45.3 | What do y'all think? |
| 1:48.1 | I know as a narcissistic person, a lot of them will record you because they want to have a way to play the victim later on. |
| 1:58.6 | Like, there are a ton of toxic narcissistic people that have absolutely, |
| 2:04.7 | that absolutely know that they have done you wrong. They know that they've been horrible to you. |
| 2:10.2 | They know they've put you through hell. They know, right. But they also want to be at a plate of |
| 2:16.8 | victim. |
| 2:22.4 | So if I can treat you horribly for a long time, |
| 2:26.9 | but I can get you on camera when you are reacting to me, |
| 2:29.7 | I can play the victim later on. I can just say, let's say I didn't treat April horrible for 20 years, right? |
| 2:35.7 | Me and April been wrong for 20 years. I didn't treat her horrible for 20 years. |
| 2:38.8 | And she finally snapped and just starts attacking me. You're swinging at me. |
| 2:42.5 | I pulled their phone on like, April leave. April, stop. April, you're scaring me. |
| 2:47.3 | April, stop it. You're going crazy. You're so delusional. |
| 2:50.5 | I haven't done anything to you. I got her. I got her now. Right? People are going to see. I can show this video to people. Right. I can show this video to people. And absolutely play the victim here. And what I absolutely can't. What's going on? Angel, not your baby. First time. I'm thankful you found me too. Appreciate. Thanks for being here. Let's just say, like, and now I got that. Who said the emotional insurance? April said it. Like, it's emotional insurers. I got you. I got you right now. I'm the victim here. Can y'all not see that I'm the victim here right and now |
| 3:28.0 | yes people think that you all the problem they look at you like you're the issue you |
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