Why Do Narcissists Keep You Exhausted? - Narcissistic Abuse, Domestic Violence

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

Abuse Survivor Network

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🗓️ 2 February 2024

⏱️ 38 minutes

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In this episode, Brandon breaks down five types of narcissistic abuse manipulation tactics that exhaust you and why they employ them. If you are in a relationship with a narcissistic abuser, then you know that it can be both mentally/physically exhausting and can leave you feeling drained and depleted. We discuss fear based manipulation tactics, doubt based tactics, monitoring tactics, guilt tactics, lack of responsibility tactics, and sabotage tactics. Each have their own purpose and can all be compounded on top of each other. If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at [email protected] To help out our podcast, please fill out our listener survey, click here. SUPPORT US BY SUPPORTING OUR SPONSOR: To receive 35% off Cozy Earth bedding, loungewear, and everything site wide, use the code “NAP” at Cozyearth.com If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:32.5	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse Q&A, we discussed the course of control tactics that abusers use to wear you down.
1:08.5	Welcome. Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse Q&A, everyone. I am Brandon Chadwick. And today we're going to be talking about how abuser you exhaust you, how they wear you down to make it very difficult for you to
1:14.9	see things clearly. And before we get into that, if you want to be a guest on our Survivor Story
1:22.0	episodes, please go to our website at Narcissistapocalypse.com. Top of the page, there's a button
1:26.9	that says guest form.
1:27.9	When you click on that button, it takes you to our guest form page.
1:31.3	And there you can read all of our instructions and either send us an email at Narcissist
1:35.2	Apocalypse at gmail.com or fill out our guest form and press the submit button.
1:40.0	And please do send it in the format that we ask for.
1:43.9	So today we're going to be talking about exhaustion and abuse and how abusers wear you down
1:51.4	and the reasons why they can wear you down or how some of these tactics are used in specific
1:57.8	situations to wear you down.
1:59.9	And I've talked with, I think, over 1,000 abuse survivors by now.
2:07.5	And by listening to their stories, I've gotten a pretty decent handle on the different
2:12.7	types of abusers, you know, besides the ones that are after you for your money or are leading a double
2:20.2	life and being pretty perfect until they're caught, you know, most of them employ tactics of
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