Why Do Narcissists Get So Angry When You Move On?
The Mental Healness Podcast
Lee Hammock
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🗓️ 3 August 2025
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Why is it that narcissists get so angry when you move on EVEN when they have moved on to someone else? What is it about you moving on that makes narcissists mad that you have found someone else.
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| 0:00.0 | So why do narcissists get so damn angry when you move on? |
| 0:05.8 | Like why are they so furious? |
| 0:08.5 | Why do they throw these big, big huge grown adult temper tantrums when you move on? |
| 0:14.9 | Even even when they themselves have already moved on. |
| 0:19.0 | What's going on inside the mind of a narcissist, y'all's what we're talking about today y'all if you knew here |
| 0:24.1 | my name is lee hammock I'm a diagnosed narcissist myself and we're talking about |
| 0:27.9 | the mind of a narcissist today like why the hell do these narcissistic people just |
| 0:34.1 | continuously get pissed off when they see you moved on or or or when they heard |
| 0:41.5 | that you've moved on like why can't they just be happy for you so let me stop |
| 0:45.1 | right there they're not going to be happy for you like very rarely will a |
| 0:50.8 | narcissist be happy that you moved on and found somebody else I'll just say it is straight up right there very rarely is a narcissist be happy that you moved on and found somebody else? |
| 0:55.8 | I'll just say that it's straight up right there. |
| 1:00.1 | Very rarely is a narcissist or a toxic person or whoever going to be just, |
| 1:05.2 | just elated that you moved on and that you found the love of your life and that you're doing better without them. |
| 1:06.6 | Very rarely, mainly because, look, narcissists e egos our egos are attached to like getting |
| 1:16.7 | rejected our egos are attached to like our inner self and like I know the ego is part of the |
| 1:22.6 | inner self but our egos are attached to everything that we do in life so even if we've've moved on and we are seemingly happy, we appear to be happy in a new relationship. When we find out one of our exes moved on, it's going to startle us. And the questions that inside of ourselves are we going to start asking, is like, is there a new person better than me? Are they clapping the cheeks better than I did? |
| 1:44.4 | Or do they have more money than I do? |
| 1:45.4 | Are they taller? |
| 1:46.0 | Are they shorter? |
| 1:46.4 | Are they bigger? Are they skinny? Or they do this? Are they smarter? Do they have more education? What do they have that I don't have? What is it about me? We're going to start attaching our worth and value to what you are doing. Sitting quietly once you've made the house all shiny |
| 1:44.7 | Down time can be just fine are doing. Sitting quietly once you've made the house all shiny. |
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