This is an I-Heart podcast.

If we say what our fears are to a woman, a woman oftentimes will lose respect for us.

If we say it to other men, the men lose respect for us.

So where is the incentive to open up and to get in touch with our feelings?

The most important single thing is dad's understanding that children benefit more from dad's time than dad's died.

For the past 30 years of my life, I have been dedicated towards trying to understand what aspects of the human condition enable us to succeed or what drives failure.

Now, a massive part of my learning, my education has been focused on training young men.

Since I was a SEAL instructor to an instructor at Blackwater, an instructor for the CIA,

running my own private training motivational company, working with pro athletes, mentoring young,

dozens of young men in terms of their dreams of either becoming athletes or becoming

special operations force members.

And I'm here to tell you that in all of that experience, one of the most profound, impactful

things that I've ever come across in terms of my research and my understanding of the most profound, impactful things that I've ever come across in terms of my research

and my understanding of the core problems is through Dr. Farrell in his book, The Boy Crisis.

This book has been one of the most impactful pieces of literature and pieces of information

that I've ever found, and it is a distinct honor for me

to have you on today with us, Doc. So God bless you and thank you for coming on. Well, I have to say

it's an honor for me to be with someone who's gone through the incredible trials and tribulations

of becoming a Navy SEAL and the dedication that that shows

toward the country and what you did, what you must have done inside of yourself to overcome

barrier after barrier after barrier and something I could never even begin to think about doing

what to do. Well, I'll tell you tell you what man as a fighter from where you've

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