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Let's talk about, you know, like I said, you know, me and Ian, we have these conversations that's very controversial, a lot of different times.

But they always say, like, why don't you talk to somebody that's actually married, right?

So from a relationship started off, a relationship standpoint, because people have been wanting to hear your

perspective on a variety of different topics that me and Ian talk about um what what is the key to having

a successful marriage oh man i think my i think everybody's key's going to be different um and that's

one of those things i see people giving advice all the time.

And I'm like every key doesn't open the same door. I think for me that the number one thing is communication is something that I've had to learn, you know, especially like us, we Picey. So

when we get in conversation, we debate and we go back and forth, we always trying to figure out

who's going to win the conversation. And early on in marriage, I realized

that you winning means somebody's losing. And if you do that long enough, that person is going to

start to feel a resentment toward even having conversation or having dialogue. And so what I learned

about communication is that there's one way to listen. There's one way to actively listen.

So some people say like, oh, you listen to me, but you're not hearing me.

And so I've learned to become an active listener.

And that's helped me out tremendously.

So communication is important.

Transparency is another one.

I remember when we had the conversation,

I'm like,

yo,

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