Why Ambition Can Make You a “Terror” - And How to Fix It
The Anxious Achiever
Morra Aarons-Mele
4.7 • 600 Ratings
🗓️ 2 March 2022
⏱️ 35 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | LinkedIn Presents. I think if you grow up with any kind of sort of headwind or any |
| 0:11.4 | sort of challenge, I think that it ends up creating some kind of motivation. And so then for me, |
| 0:16.9 | if I could see that my dad was, let's say, challenge to sort of, you know, realize his own, |
| 0:23.3 | you know, full potential because of some of the challenges he had, then I think as his son, |
| 0:28.1 | I would be motivated to, to use the capabilities I have, sort of the lack of impediments, |
| 0:33.6 | and realize my full potential. And so the manifestation of that could be very positive, very productive, |
| 0:40.3 | sort of acting as a positive role model, being very approachable, being a consistent manager, |
| 0:45.3 | or it could motivate you to sort of try to become sort of like an outsized presence or an outsized success |
| 0:52.3 | and do it on like an almost overly accelerated timeframe |
| 0:56.7 | because you're putting pressure on yourself to realize your own full potential. |
| 1:04.6 | I'm Maura Aronsmili and this is the Anxious Achiever. We look at stories from business |
| 1:09.9 | leaders who've dealt with anxiety, depression, or other mental health challenges, |
| 1:14.6 | how they fell down, how they pick themselves up, and how they hope work will change in the future. |
| 1:24.6 | There's no doubt people are becoming more open about mental health in the workplace, |
| 1:32.3 | but it's happening at a different pace everywhere. |
| 1:35.8 | And the truth is that change, the openness to share about mental health, it has to come from |
| 1:41.3 | within. |
| 1:42.7 | Today's guest has succeeded with a great career as a leader in a giant |
| 1:46.6 | tech company. But over time, Danny Bernstein realized he wasn't really succeeding at being a manager. |
| 1:53.0 | In fact, in his own words, he was being kind of a jerk. And when he was ready to face his own mental |
| 1:58.9 | health, when he put into context how his family history and his own anxiety motivated his incredible drive to success, he started noticing that his abilities as a manager were also improving. |
| 2:09.7 | Danny spent nine years at Google and recently left that position to head to another tech giant, Microsoft. |
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