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Modern Love

When Your Greatest Romance Is A Friendship | Encore

Modern Love

The New York Times

Love, New York Times, Nytimes, Essay, Loss, Storytelling, Society & Culture, Redemption, Nyt

4.39K Ratings

🗓️ 18 March 2020

⏱️ 19 minutes

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Summary

Ali Fazal ("Victoria and Abul") tells the story of an unlikely friendship between a man and his elderly neighbor. This is an encore presentation.

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Modern Love The Podcast is supported by...

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Produced by the iLap at WBUR Boston.

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From the New York Times and WBUR Boston, this is Modern Love.

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Stories of Love, Loss and Redemption.

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I'm your host, Megna Chakrabardi.

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Last week, we released an episode featuring actress Gugu Umbhata Ra,

0:46.0

reading Oliver Radcliffe's essay, recognizing what they had 20 years too late.

0:52.0

In that episode, Oliver talked about being inspired by another Modern Love Podcast episode.

0:57.0

The one where actor Ali Fuzzle, read Victor LaDotto's essay,

1:01.0

When Your Greatest Romance Is A Friendship.

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We wanted to revisit that episode this week, and here it is.

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Is this your grandson?

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People sometimes ask Austin when she's out with me.

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I love watching her vanity prick up the way she tells her small white head

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and brings out her southern accent to correct them.

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No, honey, he's my friend.

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At this point, folks usually smile tightly and turn away.

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Perhaps, what if there's more than friendship going on between the old lady

1:35.0

and the younger man seated at the bar

1:38.0

or strolling through the supermarket, giggling like teenagers?

1:43.0

Why were giggling? I couldn't tell you.

1:47.0

Often our moth seems fueled by some deep delight at being together.

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