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When Your Child Has Cancer :: Stacie Smith {Ep 42}

Don't Mom Alone Podcast

Don't Mom Alone Podcast

Kids & Family, Leisure, Parenting, Education

52.3K Ratings

🗓️ 6 October 2014

⏱️ 62 minutes

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Summary

God never promised a life without pain. But He did promise to walk with you through it.

If you find yourself in the midst of a challenging time, then today’s podcast will be an encouragement to you.

Back in March 2008, today’s guest, Stacie Smith, received news no mom wants to hear. Her oldest son, Gavin, who was 3 1/2 years old at the time, was diagnosed with cancer. An aggressive type with a low survival rate, filling a third of his brain and down his spine.

Stacie’s faith had wandered in the years leading up to Gavin’s diagnosis, but in that moment she chose to turn towards God, beat on His chest. She claims that is the only way she survived childhood cancer.

What we chat about:

  • The events leading up to Gavin’s diagnosis.
  • How Stacie first responded when the Dr said, “brain tumor”.
  • When she rode in an ambulance with her son, how good friends proved true.
  • How anger has surfaced more now, than at the beginning.
  • The fear she felt at the beginning and pleading with God to save Gavin’s life.

“Lord, you created this. I believe you can recreate it. But if it’s not going to change, prepare me in advance if bad news is coming.”

  • Stacie’s belief: Cancer didn’t come to Gavin before it passed thru the hands of God first. Wasn’t a shock to God. He knew it was coming.

Anger isn’t bad. But will the anger turn you towards God or away from God? Beat on His chest.

  • The reality and length of cancer treatment.
  • Gavin’s way to cope. . .his medicine cap collection:
  • How Gavin’s brother reacted to the cancer diagnosis/treatment.
  • Before cancer, Stacie drifted in her faith. . .stopped attending church because she didn’t want to expose her son to germs.
  • God spoke to her the night before Gavin’s first surgery. . . and gave her a vision and amazing peace.
  • Opportunities Stacie was given to share her faith during the treatment process.
  • How to help someone going through a hard season.
  • If you are going through a hard time, how to accept help from others, so you don’t rob that person of the blessing of helping you.
  • The lessons when these things happen aren’t just for the immediate family.
  • Connect with Stacie:

    Email- [email protected]

    Show Notes:

    Have you or someone you love dealt with the horrors of childhood cancer?

    Leave your story in the comments so we can join you in prayer.

Transcript

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0:00.0

You're listening to the God-centered mom podcast with me, Heather McFadden.

0:06.8

As the mom to four young boys, I know mother is hard, but sometimes I think I make it even

0:12.2

harder than it needs to be.

0:14.1

I'll worry about my needs being met or all, spend so much energy trying to make my boys

0:19.2

happy that I forget that if I would take my eyes off me and my eyes off my kids and keep

0:24.2

my eyes on God, that those desires would grow strangely dim.

0:28.8

And our contentment would go up as I'm led by his spirit.

0:31.6

I also forget that I'm surrounded by God.

0:34.4

He is going before me and places that I'm fearful of.

0:38.3

He is walking with me on the hard days and he's coming behind me, redeeming any mistake

0:43.3

I may.

0:44.5

So each week, I'll interview a new guest and we'll discuss what it means to be a God-centered

0:49.3

mom.

0:50.3

Thanks for listening.

0:55.8

We're listening to episode 42 and today I'm chatting with Stacey Smith.

1:01.7

Stacey and I have met a couple times in person, but really I was introduced to Stacey by a friend

1:07.6

who told me to go read her blog and her story and what she was writing about caught my

1:14.0

attention.

1:15.0

One, because she and I share a career.

1:17.1

We're both speech-language pathologists.

1:18.7

And two, her story involves her oldest son who at the time was three and my son was about

1:23.3

to turn three and she had another son just like I had another son who was one.

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