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Dear Young Married Couple

When You’re Not Feeling Christmas w/ Donna VanLiere (NY Times Best-Selling Author)

Dear Young Married Couple

Adam & Karissa King

Christianity, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Religion & Spirituality, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8871 Ratings

🗓️ 9 December 2025

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

🎄✨ The ache you feel during the holidays is likely an invitation to something deeper. In this conversation, bestselling author Donna VanLiere invites YOU to slow down, step away from the noise, and rediscover the quiet wonder of Christmas in the middle of real life - grief, busyness, loneliness, and all. From the ordinary people of the nativity to the ordinary pressures of modern marriage, Donna reminds us that God still does extraordinary things in everyday stories.  Are you rushing past the peace your soul is craving? What might change if you let your “no” protect your family’s “yes”? This episode will stir your hope, steady your heart, and reframe how you enter this season together.  Resources: Looking for Christmas by Donna VanLiere https://amzn.to/3XFgGjN Looking for Christmas podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/looking-for-christmas/id1858043877 7-day Looking for Christmas devotional on the YouVersion Bible App https://www.bible.com/reading-plans/61210-looking-for-christmas Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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It's not lost on me that the enemy would use Christmas, the birth of Christ, and kind of twist that,

0:09.9

pervert it, make it as busy as possible so that people don't have the time to reflect on Christ.

0:17.4

It's okay to be sad and to let the grief overwhelm you sometimes. But because Christ

0:23.3

came at Christmas, because a Savior has been born, we have a reason to rejoice. We have a reason

0:30.3

to celebrate. We still have a reason to reach out and to connect with other people in our

0:37.4

lives and with other family members.

0:39.5

Dear young married couple, if your December is full of kids' party schedules, church events,

0:45.9

and tight budgets, and you're not feeling what you're supposed to this Christmas season,

0:50.6

this episode is for you.

0:52.2

Today we're joined by Donna Van Lear, New York Times bestselling

0:55.3

author of The Christmas Shoes, the Christmas Blessing, and other stories that were brought to

1:00.0

life on Hallmark and Lifetime. Her new book, Finding Christmas, opens with the Charlie Brown

1:06.1

in all of us, and it really just addresses this dynamic of us not feeling like we're supposed to this

1:12.6

Christmas season. Today, Donna helps young families choose simple, doable practices that keep Jesus

1:18.7

at the center. Let's jump in. Welcome Donna Van Lear to the podcast. Thanks so much for being with us

1:25.1

today. Thanks for having me, Chris and Adam. Appreciate it.

1:29.5

Absolutely. Well, we're thrilled to have you and talking about Christmas and the holidays. And

1:36.8

you open your book with the chapter called The Charlie Brown in All of Us. What would you say to the young couple who admits that they're

1:47.0

not feeling what they're supposed to feel at Christmas? Yeah, I love that part in the Peanuts' Christmas

1:54.9

special because he tells Linus, I don't know, there's something wrong. I'm just not feeling the way I'm supposed to be

2:01.9

feeling. And I think it's so easy to get caught up in everything, especially now with this

2:08.9

generation in the advance of social media and now with AI. I mean, everything looks picture perfect.

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