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The Dr. Laura Podcast

When Doing the Right Thing Feels Wrong

The Dr. Laura Podcast

Dr. Laura Schlessinger & SiriusXM

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4.66.3K Ratings

🗓️ 21 April 2026

⏱️ 7 minutes

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Summary

"When Doing the Right Thing Feels Wrong" - Listen to my Morning Monologue: I’m sharing my take on pressing issues, enlightening research on human behavior, answering questions I get by email, and my favorite, most instructive interactions with callers. Everything you’ll hear is designed to help you become a better spouse, parent, family member, co-worker, friend, and human being. It’s the free therapy you need! Got a dilemma? Call 1-800-DR-LAURA / 1-800-375-2872 or make an appointment at DrLaura.com - Listen to The Dr. Laura Program daily on SiriusXM Triumph 123.

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0:00.0

Thank you for listening to my morning monologue.

0:03.8

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Remember, you can hear my radio program daily on Sirius XM Triumph and connect with me 24-7

0:26.2

at Dr.ora.com. Okay, I want to talk a little bit about what a lot of you parents think is cruel,

0:33.9

but will raise more resilient kids.

0:41.2

Our children are human beings.

0:47.2

Consequently, they're going to fail at stuff.

0:53.1

Now, consistent failure in some endeavor will tend to harm a kid's self-confidence.

1:02.8

That gets a DUH.

1:05.3

Parents should ensure that does not happen by don't place your kids in situations that don't match their

1:14.3

abilities and preferences and mildly potential. But protecting your kid, sheltering them from failure

1:25.0

is harmful.

1:33.6

Your child can either believe he or she is perfect,

1:39.9

which is phony self-esteem, which will get them into a lot of trouble as they grow older,

1:48.1

or feel confident that failing is not the end of all things.

1:58.7

So the parenting choice that feels cruel but raises more resilient kids,

2:11.1

allow your children to fail. Kids learn by trial and error.

2:17.9

Most babies try to get up, they walk, they fall down, they stumble, they fall, they try again, they'll keep trying eventually, they learn to walk and run. And they're so happy when they finally get it

2:26.5

right. Yay. Yay. Let them have that experience of yay. I finally did it. Yay. Failure. Very crucial part of growth and development. Why? Kids learn. It's okay to make mistakes as long as you learn from them and try it again in some different way.

2:58.2

If we constantly step in to prevent our kids from struggling, they fear failure. They avoid risks, which means they can't navigate life's challenges on their own, so they end up living in your basement.

3:21.9

It's actually important for kids' development.

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