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The Office of Rabbi Sacks

When Can We Lie? (Vayechi, Covenant & Conversation)

The Office of Rabbi Sacks

Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks

Religion & Spirituality

4.8601 Ratings

🗓️ 7 January 2025

⏱️ 11 minutes

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Summary

Welcome to Covenant & Conversation essays, Rabbi Sacks' commentary on the weekly Torah portion, exploring Jewish ideas and sharing inspiration from the Torah readings of the week. You can find the full written article on Vayechi available to read, print, and share, by visiting: https://rabbisacks.org/covenant-conversation/vayechi/when-can-we-lie/ This week we are also sharing the Vayechi essay by Rabbi Sacks entitled The Last Tears, and available here: https://rabbisacks.org/covenant-conversation/vayechi/the-last-tears/ A new accompanying FAMILY EDITION is now also available: https://rabbisacks.org/covenant-conversation-family-edition/vayechi/the-last-tears/ For more articles, videos, and other material from Rabbi Sacks, please visit www.RabbiSacks.org and follow @RabbiSacks. The Rabbi Sacks Legacy continues to share weekly inspiration from Rabbi Sacks. This piece was originally written and recorded by Rabbi Sacks in 2015. With thanks to the Schimmel Family for their generous sponsorship of Covenant & Conversation, dedicated in loving memory of Harry (Chaim) Schimmel.

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0:00.0

When is it permitted to tell a lie?

0:05.1

After the death of Jacob, Joseph's brothers were afraid.

0:08.8

Years earlier, when he'd revealed his true identity to them,

0:12.1

he appeared to have forgiven them for selling him as a slave.

0:15.6

But the brothers weren't wholly reassured.

0:17.6

Maybe Joseph didn't mean what he said.

0:19.8

Perhaps he still harbored resentment.

0:22.2

Mike, the only reason he had not taken revenge was respect for Jacob. There was a convention

0:27.4

in those days that there was to be no settling of scores between siblings in the lifetime of the

0:34.0

father. We know this from an earlier episode. after Jacob had taken his brother Esau's blessing.

0:40.5

Esau says, the days of mourning for my father are near. Then I will kill my brother Jacob.

0:48.1

So the brothers come before Joseph and say your father left these instructions before he died.

0:55.8

This is what you were to say to Joseph. I ask you to forgive your brothers the sins and wrongs they've committed in treating you so

1:01.1

badly. Now please forgive the sins of the servant of the God of your father. When their message came to him,

1:07.9

Joseph wept. The text makes it as plain as possible that the story the

1:13.3

brothers told Joseph was a lie. If Jacob had really said those words, he would have said them

1:19.1

to Joseph himself, not to the brothers. The time to have done so was on his deathbed in the

1:25.0

previous chapter. The brother's tale was a white lie.

1:29.6

Its primary aim wasn't to deceive,

1:32.1

but to ease a potentially explosive situation.

1:35.9

Perhaps that's why Joseph wept,

1:37.6

understanding that his brothers still thought him capable of revenge.

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