When a Narcissist Comes Back They Hope You'll Never Figure This Out
Lisa A Romano Breakdown to Breakthroughs
Lisa A. Romano
4.8 • 805 Ratings
🗓️ 18 February 2022
⏱️ 34 minutes
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Summary
Narcissists lovebomb you when you meet them, if they have determined you will. be a high source of narcissistic supply. The idealization phase bonds them to you, however, they have fused with their idealized version of you, and not you. Once you disappoint a narcissist or disagree with them, you will be devalued, and possibly discarded. In time, if a narcissist is low on narcissistic supply, they will return. This will begin the process of re-idealizing you. Lisa A. Romano breaks it all down in this episode.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Breakdown to Breakthrough podcast. |
| 0:06.0 | My name is Lisa A. Romano. |
| 0:08.0 | I am a life coach, best-selling author, YouTube vlogger, meditation teacher, an expert in the field of codependency and narcissistic abuse. |
| 0:16.0 | I am a believer in the power of an organized mind. |
| 0:20.0 | My aim is to help people learn what it means to live above the veil of consciousness, rather |
| 0:25.8 | than living a reactive life. |
| 0:28.3 | May your heart feel blessed, your mind feel expanded, and your spirit find hope as you |
| 0:33.5 | spend time with me here at the Breakdown to Breakthrough podcast. |
| 0:39.4 | So today, we're going to be talking about what's going on when a narcissist who has |
| 0:45.6 | idealized you, devalued you, and discarded you suddenly starts texting you and hovering you |
| 0:52.6 | back in. |
| 0:53.2 | Thank you so much for being here. Thank you so much for being here. |
| 0:54.6 | Thank you so much for learning about personal development. Thank you for better understanding |
| 0:59.3 | relationship dynamics. When most of us are younger, we don't understand relationship dynamics |
| 1:05.3 | as fully as we should. We go into relationships thinking that people think the way we think. And it takes a number of |
| 1:14.7 | toxic relationships sometimes to help us awaken and realize that just because we care about someone |
| 1:22.3 | in a way that includes this whole person, meaning we are curious about who they are. We want to know |
| 1:29.2 | what makes them tick. We want to know what their needs are. We want to know what their desires |
| 1:35.2 | are. We want to even know what has shaped who they are so that we can better understand this |
| 1:41.3 | person. We have respect for this person. We are curious about this person. |
| 1:47.2 | We have empathy for this person. We see this person as an individual. We want to feel close to this |
| 1:53.7 | person, but we don't want to engulf this person. We don't want to rely on this person in an unhealthy way, and we want to make sure that we don't |
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